happehanna
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My Story
by ~Jen~ ini was raised a jw by very strict parents who, in my early teen years were physically and then later emotionally abusive all the while with my dad being and elder (and he still is).
i didn't want to be a jw then but my life was all about making my parents happy which started with me being baptized at 13. my parents constantly drilled into my head that most things were "bad" and i was "bad" i constantly did whatever i could to avoid being bad.
i had no life but then met a nice jw boy when i was 17. against my better judgement, i stayed with him and married him when i was 20. i didn't have a lot in common with him but he was really nice and was safe - he was a witness and even though i wanted to be in the world so bad i chose to be with him because he would keep me grounded, in the truth and away from where i really wanted to be because it was the right thing to do.. we were married for 7 years and have 3 sons.. for the past few years i've known that i did not want to be a jw even more and was sick of being fake.
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happehanna
Welcome..
you have done the right thing leaving JW's but it isn't easy coming to terms with the 'new you' all the real choices you have now
as I said to my mother I became an adult at the age of 44 when I left 'the truth' ! it is a weird feeling but a tad scarey at times
be kind to yourself
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"He was really smart. Smart people leave all the time" <- Unwitting Witness Tells The Truth
by gubberningbody inhow many of you have heard this one, or words to that effect?.
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happehanna
My Folks say: Jehovah wants the fools of this world....how right they are
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How often do you take shower?
by asilentone infor me, i shower daily.
do any of you shower more than one time a day?.
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happehanna
One shower morning
One Bath evening
minimum
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Two Posers For You
by Farkel inhere are two ethical posers:.
i. would you rather your children grow up to be successful or happy?
explain your answer.. ii.
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happehanna
They really are posers........... we normally want the best for our children ................ if my child asked for my advice I would advise them to be happy and honest but I would not judge them and have not. One of my children choose to be successful by whatever means but after building up masses of material wealth (it took ten years) gave it all up to be happy and honest. The other child entered a top university fair and square has played by all the rules but has also rejected success and it's trappings to live a carefree life. Children at the end of the day become adults and they do what they see fit whatever we advise.
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Very Moving memorial to Michael. First class all the way
by StoneWall inglad i decided to watch it.
i was afraid it would turn out to be a circus and i was very pleasantly surprised at how.
dignified and honorable it turned out.. thanks to the jackson family for allowing many to see all the good things michael will be remembered for as well.
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happehanna
RIP MJ
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happehanna
We watched it here live on BBC news and found it really moving not a dry eye here
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How Long Were You Mentally Out Of The "Truth" Before You Left?
by minimus ini was totally spiritually and mentally out of it at least 2 years before i resigned as an elder.
it was actually a long process but i can say it is a complete one.
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happehanna
Lost interest in 1994 with generation change finally left in 2000.
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happehanna
It's not looking too good here in the UK, so No but latter half of 2010 things could be on the upturn
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happehanna
My thoughts are with you at this sad and difficult time