The babies are perfect! It seems to me they could retain that beautiful spirit if there wasn't so much crap to deal with from school, TV, their parents bagagge, etc.
I have the privilege to raise my youngest daughter who is 6yrs ojd and her love and thoughtfulness never ceases to amaze and uplift her mother and I. I detect the negative stuff a little bit the older she gets and I can see how she could become a brooding teenager if I (we) don't watch myself...
A couple of weeks ago we fell into conflict and I started raising my voice because she wasn't paying attention. She stopped and said "Dada, I told you before that if I'm not listening, just take me upstairs to my room and hold me!" Her mother and I could barely respond with, "OH! Okay..." in amazement. She comes out with some great stuff sometimes. I think I better listen better because in my observations, she knows better than I do what she needs and consistently says and does things like this.
I guess, really I'm here to make sure she doesn't get hurt in her learning process instead of being a tyrant/dictator/authouritarian...
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