soon we will be told not to admit to being gay, living with a partner, smoking, watching Harry Potter, all on the grounds we dont want to offend Jdub visitors to the site.
THEN we will be told "dont bother posting if you disagree with the WTBTS religion, it might offend those still in."
I think that is a stretch, being gay, smoking etc are things that can affect people as they are leaving and they need to discuss these things without fear of being disfellowshipped / shunned, that is what this forum is here for.
Using names such as those in the topic title are a different issue completely, people are just pointing out that although it can be satisfying to have the freedom to use words like that, sometimes it has a negative effect on any argument you may be making and will just cause some to stop reading if it is overdone or purely used to shock.