Posts by Tomapostate

hello old friends, i've been thinking about going back and need you all to give me your thoughts on it.. the last year has been a horribe one for me, in the span of less than a year the following things have happened to me:.

lost my mom to cancergot hit by a carhad a professional set back that will cost over 600k to resolveended a three and a half year relationshipit just feels like every time i think things are going to get better something else hits me and knocks me down, a small part of me wonders wether i brought all these things on myself because i left the organization (yes i know how silly that sounds) and i have given serious thought about going back.

i need you guys to talk me out of it!.

Tomapostate

Hi Lola, my two-pennuth

After I left I tried going back and found that I literally could not stomoch the meetings any more! I honestly could not see how I managed in the first place.

I understand the need for a community, but knowing what you know now you'll find that it just is not possable.

Perhaps a different church? I don't know what your belieafs are now, but if atheist perhaps a very liberal church? Humanist group?

All the best with whatever you decide.