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  Help...How should I handle this...

  by fyahzwife in

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  2. scandals

  ...dilemma?

  my husband's ex-wife(a baptized jw) has been sending hateful messages with his children(a 4 and 10-year-old), whenever they come to visit us.

  (i'm expecting), and she says hateful things about our unborn child to her children, and sometimes they repeat things they overhear her say about me and the baby.

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  fyahzwife

  ...basically, the only proof my husband I have would probably be considered heresay(sp)
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  Help...How should I handle this...

  by fyahzwife in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  ...dilemma?

  my husband's ex-wife(a baptized jw) has been sending hateful messages with his children(a 4 and 10-year-old), whenever they come to visit us.

  (i'm expecting), and she says hateful things about our unborn child to her children, and sometimes they repeat things they overhear her say about me and the baby.

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  fyahzwife

  I totally appreciate all of your responses/advices. To answer all your questions, no, she doesn't send handwritten notes with the children, she just tries to teach them, (through conversations), hatred toward me and this new baby. Yes, the children do express to her that it bothers them, in more ways than one ( they,sometimes "lash out" and say hateful things to her, or positive things about me to annoy her), but it doesn't seem to stop her, infact, the hatred for me just seems to grow...it pretty much controls her life. She has been confronted by my husband, but she insists her children are liars, and how she's hardly aware of my existence. But she's also moved on to spreading lies about me to my in-laws and they feel "caught in the middle" because she's a part of their congregation, and they just can't believe a JW would be so malicious.
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  15

  Help...How should I handle this...

  by fyahzwife in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  ...dilemma?

  my husband's ex-wife(a baptized jw) has been sending hateful messages with his children(a 4 and 10-year-old), whenever they come to visit us.

  (i'm expecting), and she says hateful things about our unborn child to her children, and sometimes they repeat things they overhear her say about me and the baby.

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  fyahzwife

  ...dilemma? My husband's ex-wife(a baptized JW) has been sending hateful messages with his children(a 4 and 10-year-old), whenever they come to visit us. (I'm expecting), and she says hateful things about our unborn child to her children, and sometimes they repeat things they overhear her say about me and the baby. Ofcourse she denies everything when confronted, but we know better. Do you think it's possible for me to report her to the "elders" at her congregation, or should I just continue to ignore her and pretend it doesn't hurt?