OB, I see your point of view, and respect it. I myself, have chosen to have sex before getting married. It has cause many problems for my girlfriend and I. Aside from it feeling amazing (for both of us i hope ) It also presented a couple problems regarding pregnancy. She is VERY VERY VERYYYYYY Pro life. The type of pro lifer who carries around a folder of pictures of aborted fetus's, just to try and make pro choicers feel bad. The first few times we had sex, she was on the pill. We tried condoms, but she didnt like the way they felt, and i could bearly feel a thing, so we ditched that idea. She went on Depo. A birthcontrol that stops the egg from coming out. Stopping her period, and 99.9% of her getting pregnant. One shot of Depo lasted 3 months. Bad side? Of course there is! Major weight gain. She has fought it off for thepast 3 months, and im not letting her go on it again, because she doesnt like it.
We've had preganancy scares, where she took an ECP, and cried for hours about it, even though it was her choice. We've had spotting, (instead of one, one week period, its small spots of blood, at random points in the month.) But to this point, she isnt pregnant.
Teenage sex is very ...different. Scary almost. Needless to say, you chose a wise path, with the waiting thing. Physical satisfaction, is not on par with maturity..or something, i dont know, i just got off work.