Posts by vampmonk

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situation,Hello everyone

by vampmonk in

hey ladies and gentlemen, im vampmonk (obviously) and im new to this thing... i just wanted to ask for any advice possible.

i'm an athiest.

i apologise forehand if this offends any one, but such are the decisions we make in life, but back to my situation.

vampmonk

and thus i choose not to follow my obvious childish infatuations. it seems that every

it seems it is a common belief everyone including my friends that i do not know what i want, ergo, i give up. i do not care what anyone else has to say, im truly fed up. now i rid myself of these pitifull human emotions for good. i've had enuf trying to look for the illusions of love and its scary realisations, i am quite obviously not meant to function like the rest of the lemming teenage society and have no place amongst them. im too different and will never be accepted by society it seems. if this "god" does exist, he's made a pretty bang up job of making my place as disjointed as possible. thank u "god" for being the one person bent on making my life somewhat miserable.

undoubtly replies would say me too young and naive to understand anything, well from what little i understand, im pretty p!$$ scared of finding out the rest. this world is a horrible place that filters the weak and misunderstood from an ideal utopic state that is shared by the rest of humanity. i, unfortunately, just happen to be one of those people that does not "fit in". thus i swear, after having completed my studies, i will be on the first trip to a tibetan monastery to live a life of solitude and silence (bout the same it was going to end up anyway).

I'm sorry to say that even you people have brought untold discomfort to my already unstable mindset, i apologise truly if this does offend but too often i have been told "the truth hurts", and boy does it.

I thank u all for sheding some light on the situation, I am indeed grateful.

and with that i bid u all farewell and good luck.

Sincerely, VampMonk.

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situation,Hello everyone

by vampmonk in

hey ladies and gentlemen, im vampmonk (obviously) and im new to this thing... i just wanted to ask for any advice possible.

i'm an athiest.

i apologise forehand if this offends any one, but such are the decisions we make in life, but back to my situation.

vampmonk

wow... i never thought it was this bad? can it really be as bad as you all say? and thank u everyone helping me out, greatly appreciated.

First off i'd like to quote a gentleman that i believe had most of the answers "The course of true love never did run smooth" and such too often is the case is it not? I'd also like to state that under no circumstances will i be abiding to any such religion EVEN if it is to "get the girl". thats not me.

now i know everyone has told me to keep my distance, but she is really special to me, aside from what anyone else thinks, she really is. she is not really as bad as you all might think. i know she does attend her meetings and what not, but her parents dont restrain her as i understand a lot of parents do... she has dated outside of the faith b4, but she says they did not last very long (obviously). but I'd really like to be in a relationship with her... i can accept her and whatever beliefs she has, really i can (although i must point out that the thought of being second to "God" does somewaht annoy me) but religion aside, she is a really fantastic person, and i really enjoy her company, ive met her parents on many occasions and have even been invited to dinner with them several times. i think that her family has taken quite a liking to me, esp her mother. Maybe this can work out? faith or no faith? and the whole marriage story... good grief thats hardly giong to put me off, even at the age of 16 (baby me *nosferatu*) i am not like most other teenagers who try and fit in as many relationships in their youths as possible... in FACT, i have never had a GF b4, and i can honestly say, that this is the first girl i've really ever felt this way for......

thanks again to all who replied

sincerely VampMonk

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situation,Hello everyone

by vampmonk in

hey ladies and gentlemen, im vampmonk (obviously) and im new to this thing... i just wanted to ask for any advice possible.

i'm an athiest.

i apologise forehand if this offends any one, but such are the decisions we make in life, but back to my situation.

vampmonk

thanks man.... zounds fun... gota start somwhere right? hehehe... ill read further thanks.

27

situation,Hello everyone

by vampmonk in

hey ladies and gentlemen, im vampmonk (obviously) and im new to this thing... i just wanted to ask for any advice possible.

i'm an athiest.

i apologise forehand if this offends any one, but such are the decisions we make in life, but back to my situation.

vampmonk

Hey ladies and gentlemen, im vampmonk (obviously) and im new to this thing... i just wanted to ask for any advice possible.

I'm an athiest. i apologise forehand if this offends any one, but such are the decisions we make in life, but back to my situation. I've grown very strong feelings for a girl who is a "witness" and although i accept her faith and especially her, my being athiest tends to worry me for i do not yet "fully understand" the faith, but for her i'm willing to learn all there is about it, so is how much i have fallen for her. i just dont know if your faith can accept me? simply as an observer? i understand that dating amongst "witnesses" is rather tight nip, and parents frown upon their daughters (not sure about sons) that date out of the faith? i know that her parents are not exactly fond of the idea, but i personally feel that faith or no faith, acceptanc is about the person and not on the grounds of which "god" he/she believes in, faith follwed etc. i really want to be accepted by her family and by her, she means a lot to me and i hope that we can share a somewhat meaningful and lenghty relationship. but my predicament stands that i may never be able to be close to her based on my beliefs? pardon my bluntness but the whole religion prejiduce thing is rather pathetic, esp wen love is involved(hopefully). plz.. if anyone can help me on this sensitive situation... PLZ any help will be most appreciated... and i apologise again if my being of other beliefs offends anyone.

sincerely

Jared (16)