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I need your help

by Veritas in

i need to know if it's ok for me to convert and become a jehovah's witness to be with the love of my life.

i need to know what you think about this idea.

if you agree with me converting, how would i do so.

First let me re-phrase my previous statement. She is not all I have but she is everything to me. She is a great part of my life and she means a great deal to me but I have more in my life such as my love for playing guitar.

ok. Next. exjdub. You say I would cave after putting so much time into the charade. You don't really know me personally. I don't mean to be rude or anything, but if you knew me you'd know I wouldn't cave. Especially being the Athiest that I am. I would never give in to their brainwashing. I would only feign interest enough to get them off of my back for being a "non-believer". I may seem somewhat mentally unstable to some of you but that may be so. It also gives me more willpower to fight for my own beliefs.

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I need your help

by Veritas in

i need to know if it's ok for me to convert and become a jehovah's witness to be with the love of my life.

i need to know what you think about this idea.

if you agree with me converting, how would i do so.

Veritas

Satanus

I enjoyed reading your reply. I think you missed out on my earlier post where I mentioned that I am an Athiest. So I basically would only feign interest so that her congregation would accept me as a believer. I refuse to belive in some god that doesn't exist. I would pretend to though. And for her I would make them all belive that I too shared the same beliefs. Oh and also I have seen a psychiatrist. They told me that the depression/rage is causing my insomnia. Most of that has gone away since I've been with her. Before that I was a very disillusioned person. A lost soul, an empty vessel. A lifeless shell etc, etc, etc... Thanks for your thoughts.

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I need your help

by Veritas in

i need to know if it's ok for me to convert and become a jehovah's witness to be with the love of my life.

i need to know what you think about this idea.

if you agree with me converting, how would i do so.

Veritas

calamityjane

Thank you for pointing out how I am not special at all. HAHA. But seriously I thank you for all your advice. It's just some situations that make me more critical than I'd usually be. The thing that makes me doubt that a little bit is that years ago before I met her she was with another quote unquote non-believer. She loved him then, and I found out from our best friend that her family never accepted him or ever treated him anywhere near a good as they treat me. She loved him and that was obvious to them yet they still didn't treat him well at all. So it makes me a bit skeptical about what you have said but I do think you could be right. The guy hurt her in the end and left her for another girl even after he made her believe that he loved her though .That pissed me off when I found out, but it gave me a chance to be with her. Anyway, thanks.

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I need your help

by Veritas in

i need to know if it's ok for me to convert and become a jehovah's witness to be with the love of my life.

i need to know what you think about this idea.

if you agree with me converting, how would i do so.

Veritas

calamityjane

Wow. Love bombed. I guess they really want me to convert. Only me. Especially since they hate every other male who goes over there except for our best friend. He is the only male other than me they allow into her room away from them. He's been her best friend for like 9 years now and mine for about four. All the other males are allowed in the house for like 10 minutes then they are asked to leave. Most of them are just friends of mine that are with me when I go visit her. So I guess I must be pretty special for them to want me as a convert and not any of my other friends other than the one specified. Hmm...Well, please keep the advice coming.

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I need your help

by Veritas in

i need to know if it's ok for me to convert and become a jehovah's witness to be with the love of my life.

i need to know what you think about this idea.

if you agree with me converting, how would i do so.

Veritas

Dan-O

See here's the thing. I could do that but I would tell her about it. She would know what I was doing and I know she feels strongly enough for me to go with it. Before I met her my life was Hell. Than years later(now) she is all I have and all I live for. I had been through so much that I am pretty much dead to the world emotion-wise. I didn't think I was capable of love until I met her. She is all I have. I could care less what all of them had to say about me and her. We'd be together and she would know that I will always make her happy. Thanks for all your insights. I really am taking everyones advice into consideration. Thank you.

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I need your help

by Veritas in

i need to know if it's ok for me to convert and become a jehovah's witness to be with the love of my life.

i need to know what you think about this idea.

if you agree with me converting, how would i do so.

Veritas

Everyone.

Once again thank you for the advice. I guess it just seems easy for me to convert because I am an Athiest and have been since I was about 10 or so. That's a long time. I guess I just figured I could keep a charade going where they would believe in me as a JW but where I would only be attending things for her. I have met her family and I go to her house almost everyday and I'm very welcome there. In a way I think if I honestly spoke with her father he would give me his blessing. He would try and convince me to convert also, but if I didn't I believe he would still give me his blessing. I have been close with her entire family for about four years now. I basically am considered a son already. Well anyway, thank you all for your helpful advice.

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I need your help

by Veritas in

i need to know if it's ok for me to convert and become a jehovah's witness to be with the love of my life.

i need to know what you think about this idea.

if you agree with me converting, how would i do so.

Veritas

I'm not looking for someone to tell me it's a good idea. I really just wanted advice and I appreciate everyone who has given me some thus far.

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I need your help

by Veritas in

i need to know if it's ok for me to convert and become a jehovah's witness to be with the love of my life.

i need to know what you think about this idea.

if you agree with me converting, how would i do so.

Veritas

stillajwexelder

Yes, the love of my life would read something considered innapropriate if I asked her. She is willing to compromise with me on a few things that most jw's don't consider appropriate. One of the earlier replies to my post said something about no other sex other than missionary position. I spoke with her about that one time out of curiosity and she said that even though it's frowned upon, that for me she would do other things. She is very loyal to her faith but she also has a human side that keeps her just as loyal to me. Most jw's wouldn't even consider some of these things and I know that she would for me.

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I need your help

by Veritas in

i need to know if it's ok for me to convert and become a jehovah's witness to be with the love of my life.

i need to know what you think about this idea.

if you agree with me converting, how would i do so.

Veritas

Franklin J

Thank you for your input. The thing is that you stated that she asked for me to convert. That part isn't true. I have chosen this by free will. It would make it easier on her if I did, because her father will not give his blessing to anybody that isn't a Jehovah's Witness. She gets sad over this and I don't want to ever cause her pain so that's why I decided to do this on my own.

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I need your help

by Veritas in

i need to know if it's ok for me to convert and become a jehovah's witness to be with the love of my life.

i need to know what you think about this idea.

if you agree with me converting, how would i do so.

Veritas

I need to know if it's ok for me to convert and become a Jehovah's Witness to be with the love of my life. I would do anything for her and it seems right to me. I need to know what you think about this idea. If you agree with me converting, how would I do so. What steps do I have to take? I need your help.