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  Officer Wilson not indicted in killing of Michael Brown

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  after a thorough investigation and weighing of the evidence the grand jury has decided not to indict the officer.. the reaction so far seems as predicted - people refuse to accept that the result represents justice despite claims that is what they wanted.. there is now violence and vandalism, including gunshots.

  let's hope the police contain the troublemakers.. .

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  DESIGNS: Societal masochism is a thread in our human evolution. Hunger strikes, seppuku, it takes many forms. You and I went through a form of it with our Draft cases.

  I don't see the analogy as clearly as you do. Who does a hunger strike hurt outside of the person suffering hunger? Seppuku is fatal only to the one

  wielding the blade. My draft case and yours caused no property damage or theft.

  I have to classify the Ferguson riots as much more likely an opportunist excuse (largely if not entirely) for acting out and getting away with it within

  a dysfunctional community of peers.

  If the victim's parents or relatives were doing these things IT WOULD MAKE MORE SENSE, wouldn't it? They are the most immediately impacted.
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  TYRED OF SPELING ERURS? SIK OF BAD GRAMMUR?

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  Terry

  Do keep in mind I am suggesting GRAMMARLY app to make this task much, much easier!
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  I'm sitting here listening to a JW try to recruit somebody

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  i'm at starbucks .

  just outside in the courtyard.. i'm trembling.

  my hands are shaking.. wow!.

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  I really want to be no part of any decision a 19-year-old young man makes which will affect the rest of his life.

  That is--I don't want to tip the scale when he is in a vulnerable state. The worst decisions are made at times

  where there is stress.

  All I want to do and be is a sounding board for his consideration of alternate views.

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  I keep repeating to Jordan, "Don't believe anything I tell you on face value. Please, investigate and satisfy your own mind."

  The ability to make decisions does not come naturally when you've been under Authority for most of your life!

  I do know until now Jordan's idea of "research" has been exclusively Watchtower publications.

  Learning how to go beyond that doesn't happen overnight.

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  I suppose what I am afraid of is crossing over from friendly sounding board to steering him.

  Let's do some calculation here:

  If he remains disfellowshipped he loses all the rest of his family. (Remember he's still reeling from the loss of his deceased Dad.)

  He loses his "spiritual" anchor and probably his faith.

  Suddenly he is raw meat. EXACTLY HOW does that "help" him?

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  To me, the wisest course of action is for him to take a kind of "Timeout" to collect himself. During this abeyance, he can learn to be on his

  own to determine how possible/feasible such a life might well be.

  Burning your bridges is almost always foolhardy.

  Further, he will develop rebuttal skills and resilience as the JW buzzards begin to peck at him.

  Secondarily, he might through his obstinant quest for really truthful answers, awaken in others the alarm bell that something doesn't smell right.

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  If I can walk the tightrope of responsible mentoring without undue influence (a fool's errand) I will have a clean conscience.
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  I'm sitting here listening to a JW try to recruit somebody

  by Terry in

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  i'm at starbucks .

  just outside in the courtyard.. i'm trembling.

  my hands are shaking.. wow!.

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  Update from Monday. . .

  At 3:36 in the afternoon yesterday, I received a text from Jordan asking me when I would be available.

  I asked him how he was, and mentioned I'd be available whenever he needed to talk.

  He said, "Honestly not so good; like I just need to open up. I guess I feel like I'm holding a lot in and it's stressing."

  I recommended he set up a time and I'd listen to anything he needed to say.

  He replied: "That sounds great! I work two jobs now so I'd have to figure out when I can see you, but it will

  definitely be soon."

  I told him I thought is wasn't at all unusual for a person who is "waking up" about the "truth" to experience extreme stress.

  I joked that it was like suddenly finding out your Uncle Fred was a serial killer.

  He texted, "Hahaha exactly and Uncle Fred keeps stabbing me in the back. I'm seriously glad you understand me like that.

  It sucks to feel how I feel because sometimes I feel alone."

  I offered that the pressure he was getting was because the use of FEAR is almost always involved.

  He said, "Well, I definitely feel it. The fear."

  I told him there were thousands--even millions of people just like him and he definitely was NOT alone.

  He replied, "I know when I feel alone I read former JW life stories and it kinda calms me, but still makes me feel bad at

  the same time. Lol."

  That was an extraordinary response!

  I offered a parting thought: "Take assurance that truth isn't afraid of questions, but false information tries to hid behind

  the blame-game."

  He responded: "I will remember that."
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  TYRED OF SPELING ERURS? SIK OF BAD GRAMMUR?

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  "In my opinion, the use of good grammar is a way of showing respect to yourself, your listeners and the language. It elevates the topic and gives it more value, even if only in the mind of the writer."

  Hey, I like that!
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  AREN'T BOOKS really a perfect GIFT for seasonal giving for opening fence-sitting JW minds?

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  i spent about 6 years working at half price books.. i know people who are readers are passionate about reading.. the choice of what to read is personal.. _____________.

  when i've been given a book as a gift--i take it as a personal gift.

  kinds of gifts (i.e.

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  I wish I had thought to include a Watchtower subscription as incentive!
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  Officer Wilson not indicted in killing of Michael Brown

  by Simon in

  1. social
  2. current

  after a thorough investigation and weighing of the evidence the grand jury has decided not to indict the officer.. the reaction so far seems as predicted - people refuse to accept that the result represents justice despite claims that is what they wanted.. there is now violence and vandalism, including gunshots.

  let's hope the police contain the troublemakers.. .

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  Terry

  If Michael Brown's supporters in any way reflect the attitude and conduct of the person they claim

  to support--perhaps the police should pack it in and leave the town of Ferguson to vigilante mindset and

  see how much better everyone will feel.

  I have a difficult time connecting a sense of "injustice" with rioting, looting, and anarchy.

  Somebody clue me in, please.

  "I'm so angry I'm going to break things and steal something." Really?
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  AREN'T BOOKS really a perfect GIFT for seasonal giving for opening fence-sitting JW minds?

  by Terry in

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  2. friends

  i spent about 6 years working at half price books.. i know people who are readers are passionate about reading.. the choice of what to read is personal.. _____________.

  when i've been given a book as a gift--i take it as a personal gift.

  kinds of gifts (i.e.

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  I spent about 6 years working at HALF PRICE BOOKS.

  I know people who are readers are passionate about reading.

  The choice of what to read is PERSONAL.

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  When I've been given a book as a gift--I take it as a PERSONAL gift. Perhaps more so than most other

  kinds of gifts (i.e. Gift Cards).

  I think to myself, "Hmmm, this friend of mine is sharing ideas, thoughts, entertainment with me."

  I always smile when I receive a book.

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  I'd like to risk appearing self-aggrandizing for a moment and suggest either of my books as gifts.

  First, I'll tell you why.

  There are so many kinds of anti-JW books available today (hundreds!) in high contrast to ten or twenty

  years ago. Some are written well and others less so. When I wrote my books I endeavored to make them

  easily readable, filled with fresh presentation of ideas, context, and factual (non-technical) demonstrations

  of how the Watchtower Corporation is a blight on society.

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  I think there are probably many of us who have friends, acquaintances, and family who might "enjoy" one

  of my JW-bashing books :) It's not the same old same old.

  Especially is this true of my Sci-fi novel, THE MONORAILS OF MARS.

  On the other hand, the personal story of going through my JW years and ending up in prison may well open

  a few eyes and minds too.

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  http://www.amazon.com/Monorails-Mars-Terry-Walstrom/dp/131236033X/ref=sr_1_2_twi_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1416864353&sr=8-2&keywords=terry+walstrom

  

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  http://www.amazon.com/Wept-Rivers-Babylon-Prisoner-Conscience/dp/1492902063/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1416864353&sr=8-1&keywords=terry+walstrom

  
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  TYRED OF SPELING ERURS? SIK OF BAD GRAMMUR?

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  The internet generation (yes, I'm indulging in the blame game) has sacrificed a great deal for brevity of form.

  It's perfectly okay to break rules IF YOU KNOW THE RULES YOU'RE BREAKING.

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  I'm constantly experimenting with the way I compose words on a page.

  The esthetic (or aesthetic) of words on a background has always struck me as an opportunity

  for organizing and displaying thoughts with an artist's eye.

  For those who understand, no explanation is necessary.

  For those who don't, no explanation is possible :)

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  In my recent Sci-Fi novel (THE MONRAILS of MARS) I experimented with very brief chapters

  and compact paragraphs. Why?

  I think when your eye falls on a page, it should be inviting with bite-sized information.

  Jumbo paragraphs and dense words (like clowns in a Volkswagon) repel my eye.

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  If I see a Topic Header on JW-Net and the spelling is mangled--I confess--I automatically

  judge the person's level of awareness. I should not use such knee-jerk pedantry, I know.

  It's just this; I've really tried to pay attention to words and their proper use my entire life.

  Not to be boorish, but there is great beauty in the meticulous crafting of language.

  Not all posts require this, certainly; perhaps the majority do not--but important topics suffer

  from sloppy wording, oblivious punctuation, and clueless spelling.

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  If I sound judgmental, I apologize. Please take these words with loving tenderness implied. I don't like

  anybody demanding I measure up to their arbitrary standard any more than you do.

  I'm saying the technology of apps such as GRAMMARLY take the sting out of being perspicacious.

  Nuff said.
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  TYRED OF SPELING ERURS? SIK OF BAD GRAMMUR?

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  I notice many Topic Headings seem like they were composed on the fly in a tornado.

  The text often reflects a grade school attention to basic writing skills.

  I've been browsing through available APPS which can help with this for ALL OF US.

  See what you think of GRAMMARLY.

  http://online-grammar-check-review.toptenreviews.com/grammarly-review.html

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  If this topic pisses you off because you think I'm on my high-horse--maybe YOU are just the person who most needs it :)

  Seriously though, isn't it worth a teeny bit of effort to represent the so-called APOSTATE community with the best

  possible expression?

  I know JW's aren't allowed to engage in book larnin' but Apostates are free to be correct.

  I'm using Grammarly right now. When I deliberately typed the word "larnin'" I got a small box floating above my text

  which said: HOVER OVER UNDERLINED TEST TO SEE CORRECTION OPTIONS.

  I did it on purpose to test the program. IT WORKS!

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  I'm just trying to be helpful to myself, to you and to our public face.

  You may now return to your regularly scheduled lives:)