Actually Simon has been offending, so far he has said that my children are "stupid" if they believe in Santa and that I am "dumb" if I teach them that Santa is real.By the way Simon, I do teach my kids about Santa and they believe he is real, but I have never blackmailed or bribed (emotionally or otherwise) them...they just believe the whole fantasy. Actually, I never though I would teach my children about Santa, my oldest just was taken in by the holiday cartoons and movies and I just found it enjoyable to play along. She is now seven and she still believes!
I take great pride in raising my children. I think they are beautiful and well adjusted for their ages. I am more worried that they may grow up and get mixed up with the wrong crowd, start doing drugs or have babies at 13 or 14 years old, than if they grow up believing in UFO's. I take the necessary precautions to stop the real dangers that may affect my children rather than spend my time nit-picking the harmless things.
That is just my opinion though, I am sure not all here will agree.
Michelle (of the "I hope to raise great kids" crowd)
woman what happens when your kids find out from some other kid that santa dosen't exist
and they confront you on it, or when you do finally break it to them then
they go into this what else are you hiding from me mood.
kids don't like being lied to period, even from mommy!!!
when I was growing I felt sorry for kids like yours.
then when they get older you suffer
tell them the truth or else watch that additude of not listening to you grow because their trust of you was abused.