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  After 2 years my parents make contact. The end result is that I promise them to cryogenically preserve ONLY their heads

  by paulmolark in

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  it has been 2 and a half years since my departure from the religion.

  i was told by my parents from the start that i would never speak to them until i returned to jehovah dog.

  a few months later they told people they hoped i died before the end came, then all of this culminating in them telling my inactive / fading sister that they don't consider me a child anymore and they have given me up to satan.

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  Extremely lol
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  After 2 years my parents make contact. The end result is that I promise them to cryogenically preserve ONLY their heads

  by paulmolark in

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  2. experiences

  it has been 2 and a half years since my departure from the religion.

  i was told by my parents from the start that i would never speak to them until i returned to jehovah dog.

  a few months later they told people they hoped i died before the end came, then all of this culminating in them telling my inactive / fading sister that they don't consider me a child anymore and they have given me up to satan.

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  3rdgen -“My mother was born in 1918 to a father who became a Russellite in 1914. In my case a generation was nearly 50 years! LOL”

  So they were of the firstfruits. I imagine with that type of “spiritual heritage” any wavering was tantamount to a death sentence

  Giordano When I was in therapy the individual admitted to thinking that I must be exaggerating to some degree or another. Until he read the letters I have received. He then began to ask if she has been treated in any form and if she is the caretaker of any other children. She definitely has issues that need to be addressed but the religion she is in is buil;t for people like her to continue untreated.

  Hoser - “What she really wants is to get details of my life so that she can criticize me for missing meetings and not going in field serve us.”

  Tell her you are sick and she will tell everyone she heard you have an STD. Tell her you are doing well and she will say you are consumed with material things. It is a lose lose situation.
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  After 2 years my parents make contact. The end result is that I promise them to cryogenically preserve ONLY their heads

  by paulmolark in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  it has been 2 and a half years since my departure from the religion.

  i was told by my parents from the start that i would never speak to them until i returned to jehovah dog.

  a few months later they told people they hoped i died before the end came, then all of this culminating in them telling my inactive / fading sister that they don't consider me a child anymore and they have given me up to satan.

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  Hoser, there is something about 3's LOL. You are right, it doesn't matter what you do/say/believe it is never good enough... but as soon as you stop caring about what she thinks she goes beastmode and tries to ruin you.

  You sound like you have the situation well in hand though.
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  After 2 years my parents make contact. The end result is that I promise them to cryogenically preserve ONLY their heads

  by paulmolark in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  it has been 2 and a half years since my departure from the religion.

  i was told by my parents from the start that i would never speak to them until i returned to jehovah dog.

  a few months later they told people they hoped i died before the end came, then all of this culminating in them telling my inactive / fading sister that they don't consider me a child anymore and they have given me up to satan.

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  "They frequently would save their cutting remarks, put downs, and embarrassing stories for the Kingdom hall, the family, even strangers. If they run out of insults they use out and out lies. They love the DRAMA.They get some sort of sick pleasure watching your public humiliation."

  This is her in a nutshell. When my sister literally ran away from home because of this she made up the most atrocious lies about her. Made sure she told them all to people at every opportunity. She would cry at the meetings, get up and run to the bathroom in tears. People would huddle around her as she sobbed. Then get home and be perfectly fine. We were all afraid to ask her why she was lying because we knew what would come next. LOL

  Are you actually a 3rd Gen witness?
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  After 2 years my parents make contact. The end result is that I promise them to cryogenically preserve ONLY their heads

  by paulmolark in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  it has been 2 and a half years since my departure from the religion.

  i was told by my parents from the start that i would never speak to them until i returned to jehovah dog.

  a few months later they told people they hoped i died before the end came, then all of this culminating in them telling my inactive / fading sister that they don't consider me a child anymore and they have given me up to satan.

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  Your mean spirited comments about me were very unkind and hurtful. But I guess that is just who you are as well.

  It took one click for me to see your posts that were just as bad

  1. Sometimes I feel a little cheated that there isn't such a god, for he surely would severely punish the likes of the self-appointed "Governing Body of Jehovah's Witnesses" for their many lies, hypocrisies and errors.

  2. Furrowing my brow, I said, "That's an odd question!" which threw him off a bit. Pausing just long enough for the full-effect to sink in, but not long enough for him to actually respond, I quickly continued, "I bet my meeting attendance it better than yours! I can honestly say, 'I have not missed a single meeting in over a year!' Can you say that?"

  - Although you were being witty you tried to avoid telling the full truth on the matter. You are a deceitful person afraid to tell people who you are and what you are really about.

  3. She said, "Are you saying we don't need to go to the meetings?"

  Now, not wanting to be branded an apostate, I hedged. "No I did NOT say that.

  Deceit again

  4. What I hate/detest/deplore and find incredibly annoying is when posters:

  • Cut & Paste an entire article without any editing or commentary!

  Seriously!

  What's the point?

  It's just lazy.

  More arrogance on your part as if people have to cater too and listen to whatever you say and enjoy it.

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  So on the first click of your posts you also WISH THERE WAS A GOD, not so you could get to know him and benefit from it or grasp the many wonders of the world... instead you feel cheated her doesn't exist so he could make the GB pay. Men that you followed out of your own free will.

  You were purposely deceitful to people you know because you are afraid of being your genuine self in front of them

  You also condemn your "TRIBE MATES" because of their personal choices. How about you let go of your self-importance and learn that when you criticize people or offer your opinion someone else might come back with ones that you do not like.

  Also remember that before you blame someone for being so scared that they can't move on make sure you have not made a point similar.

  The audacity to condemn me when you foolishly state you feel cheated there is no GOD because you wish physical harm on men that you as a grown man chose to follow.

  Pot meet Kettle
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  After 2 years my parents make contact. The end result is that I promise them to cryogenically preserve ONLY their heads

  by paulmolark in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  it has been 2 and a half years since my departure from the religion.

  i was told by my parents from the start that i would never speak to them until i returned to jehovah dog.

  a few months later they told people they hoped i died before the end came, then all of this culminating in them telling my inactive / fading sister that they don't consider me a child anymore and they have given me up to satan.

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  "Obviously you feel how you feel and dont want any opinions unless they support the view you already hold,so I will bow out."

  Seems like that is your goal as well.

  There were others that offered suggestions. I accepted them. Just not his. Why that angers YOU i don't know.

  I will bow out as well.
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  After 2 years my parents make contact. The end result is that I promise them to cryogenically preserve ONLY their heads

  by paulmolark in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  it has been 2 and a half years since my departure from the religion.

  i was told by my parents from the start that i would never speak to them until i returned to jehovah dog.

  a few months later they told people they hoped i died before the end came, then all of this culminating in them telling my inactive / fading sister that they don't consider me a child anymore and they have given me up to satan.

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  "And I would never highlight their biggest heartbreak to make any point -deserved or not.

  Then why not direct this so him as well. As stated telling an abused person they are just like their abuser kind falls into that same category. So you might want to direct this point toward him as well.
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  After 2 years my parents make contact. The end result is that I promise them to cryogenically preserve ONLY their heads

  by paulmolark in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  it has been 2 and a half years since my departure from the religion.

  i was told by my parents from the start that i would never speak to them until i returned to jehovah dog.

  a few months later they told people they hoped i died before the end came, then all of this culminating in them telling my inactive / fading sister that they don't consider me a child anymore and they have given me up to satan.

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  If that is the meanest thing you have ever read here you have not been here very long. I am direct in my wording which may make it sound mean, however if you look at the things implied by others you will see there is little difference.

  If you had a friend who had all the answers for your situation but there situation was worse than yours I do not think you would be so ready to follow their instructions

  " The way you are now, you are just being like her." - I would think this statement could be one of the meanest things I have ever read. Telling someone who has been abused by someone for decades they are acting just like their abuser. That is pretty mean.

  What I said was an observation coming from someone who wants to appear to have answers for my situation when they are in one that seems worse. Go figure

  
  
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  After 2 years my parents make contact. The end result is that I promise them to cryogenically preserve ONLY their heads

  by paulmolark in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  it has been 2 and a half years since my departure from the religion.

  i was told by my parents from the start that i would never speak to them until i returned to jehovah dog.

  a few months later they told people they hoped i died before the end came, then all of this culminating in them telling my inactive / fading sister that they don't consider me a child anymore and they have given me up to satan.

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  "They hate it when the control is taken away from them, all they have left to threaten you with is God destroying you. I mean it's not even eternal damnation or anything "

  Exactly. It is although have left. Take it from them and they hit rock bottom. I was happy thinking I would never hear from her again. She had to rear her ugly head...
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  After 2 years my parents make contact. The end result is that I promise them to cryogenically preserve ONLY their heads

  by paulmolark in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  it has been 2 and a half years since my departure from the religion.

  i was told by my parents from the start that i would never speak to them until i returned to jehovah dog.

  a few months later they told people they hoped i died before the end came, then all of this culminating in them telling my inactive / fading sister that they don't consider me a child anymore and they have given me up to satan.

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  Flipper - They elders were aware. They made multiple visits to our home but during the 80's no one would dare say or do anything when it came to "the rod". We were the picture perfect example. My dad became an elder and at the same time was constantly drinking and having issues with her. Your assessment of him was 100% correct. He did not have the ability to stand up to her, and because of that the two kids she disliked received hell while the one she loved never did.

  Her favorite line, "Go 'head and call the police... I'll beat your little narrow behind in front of them - I don't care!"

  What was a child to do?