Posts by missy04

Oh well, the bright side, if there is one, is that your mother could be so unhappy at the thought of NOT having your company. Mothers are funny. Mad and hurt because they love you.

Yah, I realize now that she wasn't as angry as she was acting, she was more hurt I guess. And she wouldn't have acted that way if she hadn't misunderstood me.

**Feelings kind of bad now** I know I didn't make her act the way she did but I am feeling bad for her.

She did apologize, too.

~Sarah

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Don't mean to be a bummer on Christmas..

by missy04 in

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i really don't mean to be a bummer on christmas, but i just needed to vent.

even if nobody responds i don't care i just needed to let it out.

if it was any day other than christmas i'd call up a friend to talk about it but i don't feel right calling anyone to pout on christmas.

missy04

Hun I think your stress and anxiety is from the weirdness your in, once you are on your own you can mellow out.

I totally agree..It's actually amazing how much better I can function when I am not with my parents!!!

(((HUGS)))

~Sarah

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Funniest, Most Satanic Christmas Display...ever!

by Nancy Drake in

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i'll bet the jw's skip this house when out in the ministry!!!!

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missy04

hmmm..would like to see the pic but it's just showing as a white box with a red X in it. Doesn't want to show up right.

~Sarah

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That really weird disoriented feeling after taking a long nap...

by Elsewhere in

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does anyone know how to get rid of it?

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missy04

How exactly do ya feel, Elsewhere?

Did you fall asleep when it was light out and wake up when it was dark or starting to get dark? That always messes with my head when I do that.

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Don't mean to be a bummer on Christmas..

by missy04 in

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i really don't mean to be a bummer on christmas, but i just needed to vent.

even if nobody responds i don't care i just needed to let it out.

if it was any day other than christmas i'd call up a friend to talk about it but i don't feel right calling anyone to pout on christmas.

missy04

Maybe you should call the elders and tell them what the fine upstanding witness of Jehover did.

I definetely would except my parents aren't witnesses. I can't imagine if they were!! Yeesh that would be alot worse.

your mom flipped you off.....hmmmm...well alrighty then....

Yah crazy huh

relax while they are gone , turn the music up and put the stress aside.. it'll come back home when the parents do!

Yah that's why I am still hiding in my room. "they're backkkkkkkk"

Should have taken a picture and sent that out as a holiday card next year.

Start the education immediately. Please don't put it off. You will be so pleased that you did!! (I promise.)

I think I will do that soon...I think if I left here first it would be so much better, because I can't stand all the chaos. It makes my head spin. You're right though I know I need to do that.

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Is it better to bottle up your feelings?

by Nancy Drake in

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do you ever have feelings you wish you didn't have?

people always say you shouldn't bottle up your emotions, that it's not healthy.. but if you think it's wrong to feel a certain way...(ex.

jealous, anxious), isn't it better to swallow it into your stomach so no one gets hurt?

missy04

But if you think it's wrong to feel a certain way...(ex. jealous, anxious), isn't it better to swallow it into your stomach so no one gets hurt?

I don't think it's ever good to bottle up your feelings. You can let them out without hurting anyone. If you feel jelous, talk about it, you don't neccesarily have to talk about it with the person you are having the feelings towards.

In my experience, when I bottle up my feelings and don't talk about them, the next stressful situation that comes up, I just go nuts. So they come out either way, either at the time I am upset or at a later time when it has nothing to do with it.

((((HUGS))))

~sarah

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Don't mean to be a bummer on Christmas..

by missy04 in

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i really don't mean to be a bummer on christmas, but i just needed to vent.

even if nobody responds i don't care i just needed to let it out.

if it was any day other than christmas i'd call up a friend to talk about it but i don't feel right calling anyone to pout on christmas.

missy04

nope..unfortunately I'm living with the parents.

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Would You Even Bother?

by redskymedic in

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so, my jw mother passed on word to the local cong.

that i was df-ed, had just moved into the area and could use that yearly 'shepherding' phone call to see if anything has changed.

i was not home at the time, my husband took the call.

missy04

With all the new info I now have under my belt, part of me thinks it would be empowering to have a discussion with an elder that didn't leave me on the defensive. The other part of me thinks I'd be better off banging my head off of the nearest wall out of frustration. I would love to hear for myself what rote answers they have to offer up. I certainly wouldn't go as far stepping into a KH or letting them into my house, but I'm wondering if a phone call would be just as bad. Any input?

I would do just exactly what you feel like doing. If you get the urge to call, I would call.

~Sarah

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Don't mean to be a bummer on Christmas..

by missy04 in

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i really don't mean to be a bummer on christmas, but i just needed to vent.

even if nobody responds i don't care i just needed to let it out.

if it was any day other than christmas i'd call up a friend to talk about it but i don't feel right calling anyone to pout on christmas.

missy04

Family is the key at Christmas, when you resist that it causes the family pain.

Normally I would have gone and been with the family today. I have anxiety problems and depression and just couldn't make myself do it today.