Posts by missy04

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7 possible reasons you wont get a presnt this year.

by candidlynuts in

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Don't mean to be a bummer on Christmas..

by missy04 in

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i really don't mean to be a bummer on christmas, but i just needed to vent.

even if nobody responds i don't care i just needed to let it out.

if it was any day other than christmas i'd call up a friend to talk about it but i don't feel right calling anyone to pout on christmas.

I really don't mean to be a bummer on Christmas, but I just needed to vent. Even if nobody responds I don't care I just needed to let it out. If it was any day other than Christmas I'd call up a friend to talk about it but I don't feel right calling anyone to pout on Christmas.

If anybody had a stressful Christmas, or anytime lately, go ahead and vent about it here.

The reason I am sitting here bummed out right now is that earlier in the week I had told my mum I didn't plan on going to the family Christmas get-together today at my Grandma and Grandpa's house unless I was feeling less stressed. I didn't think I would be up to being around a bunch of people, and especially without being able to buy everyone presents.

Well she was fine with it until today and they had even decided they didn't feel like going. But about 45 minutes ago I started recieving guilt trips about how it's going to tick everyone off if I don't go. Well when they were leaving my mom said "hope you have a great Christmas, Sarah. I won't" Then they were about to get in the car and drive off and I realized I had no idea how long they were going to be gone and wanted to ask my dad. So I knocked on the window and my mom looked up and I pointed towards my dad, asking her to get his attention for me. Well she thought I was flipping her off. (which I have never done and would never do to my mother.) So she screamed "F*** you too" (with middle finger in air) and they drove off with my mom still screaming obscenities at me. Merry Christmas, right?...

I realize I have been posting bummer threads alot lately...so I really really apologize. My family situation is just very stressful right now.

If anyone else is stressed out today...go ahead and vent about it here. I think I feel a little better already after typing about it.

~Sarah

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What do ya do when...

by missy04 in

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you're 18, (considered an adult), want to move out of your parents house to get away from your dysfunctional mom, and can't because you feel guilty leaving your mom and dad because your parents have alot of health problems?.

i absolutely cannot function in this environment.

it's just nuts.

missy04

Thank you all very much..you've all given alot of helpful suggestions

You all are so sweet!!

Merry merry merry merry merry Christmas!!!!

~Sarah

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Redhotchilipepper... get fixed !

by candidlynuts in

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for some reason she cant get here.. someone send out the st bernards to save her!

just remember red.. i have no life so i'll be here when you finally get back lol

i miss you!

missy04

wait....I'm supposed to be rooting for my friend!!! Get him, redhotchilipepper!!!!

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Redhotchilipepper... get fixed !

by candidlynuts in

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for some reason she cant get here.. someone send out the st bernards to save her!

just remember red.. i have no life so i'll be here when you finally get back lol

i miss you!

missy04

Run Santa, RUN!!!

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Merry Christmas to everyone!

by azaria in

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i don't come here much anymore but i did want to wish everyone a .

t t. t wonderful christmas t. t

missy04

Merry Christmas to you, too Azaria!!!!!

~Sarah

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Alcohol Troubleshooting

by Prefect in

this chart maybe of some help this holiday.. .

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missy04

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CHRISTMAS DINNER WHAT DID TOU ALL HAVE???????++

by vitty in

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we had, wait for it.....................home made beef curry and it was fantastic .

i was going to make a dinner, but since there only 3 of us and were not quite there yet, we decided to have our favorite....curry ym.

if the day ever comes and my daughter and her man are out ill have the biggest christmas ever.. but for now, i feel a little empty, and id feel fake, you know trying to enjoy it.

missy04

two peices of fudge for breakfast

~Sarah

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Merry Christmas!

by cruzanheart in

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'twas the night before christmas in big tex's house, .

not a creature was stirring, no, not even moose.

the stockings were hung on the staircase this year, .

missy04

A very merry Christmas to you too!! Beautiful pictures!!

~Sarah

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What do ya do when...

by missy04 in

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you're 18, (considered an adult), want to move out of your parents house to get away from your dysfunctional mom, and can't because you feel guilty leaving your mom and dad because your parents have alot of health problems?.

i absolutely cannot function in this environment.

it's just nuts.

missy04

The straw that finally broke my back was when we went shopping for clothes, she said "You can pick out however many outfits you want, if you'll promise that you'll pioneer for the next year"
No, thank you. I went off immediately, telling her I didn't want anything from her if she wanted to bribe me with "materialistic things" to serve God. That ended the shopping trip.
10 years later, I can still remember the guilt trips and shaming. They continue to this day, just on a far muted plane. My mother has seen my moral values in action on more than one occasion, and she lets them be.

Wow,..she really REALLLLY wanted you to pioneer, huh.

I've heard alot about parents bribing their kids to pioneer and stuff. sad.

Good for you standing up to her.

~Sarah