Rule number one: Don't feel sorry for yourself.
Rule number two: Dont't look back
Rule number three: Learn from your mistakes and take responsibility ( tough but you can do this)
Rule number four: Make your own luck ( I could write a book about this)
Rule number five: Its not how much you make, its how you spend it ( I learned this the hard way)
Rule number six: Have a plan. ( those that don't have a plan, plan on failing)