Viv
I send you my deepest sympathy. Stay close to your Grandmother for as long as you can. We went through losing 2 fathers in the same year, I feel your pain. Hang in there.
Big Hugs to you.
i have never felt more helpless in my life.
my grandma is sick, dying, and there is nothing i can do.
when i look at her, i see this echo of a woman that once was vital, strong and alive.
Viv
I send you my deepest sympathy. Stay close to your Grandmother for as long as you can. We went through losing 2 fathers in the same year, I feel your pain. Hang in there.
Big Hugs to you.
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These pictures are gorgeous, thank you so much for sharing them with us. I especially like the ones with all the huge rocks, and homes in amongst them.
puppy.
the answer to that question is yes!!
we always want the easy way out , a pill, a religion , a shrink to make us happy.no one can make you happy but you.start taking control of your own life and your own brain and stop depending on others.
xena posted this the other day.
I totally agree with Scully on this one. Ones who get depressed, just plain and simply cannot just "snap out of it" or for that matter, make themselves happy.
Try one day, not even that one half day of total depression, and see the affect it has on a person.
It is a definate up and down hill struggle, and unless you experience it, you have no! idea what it does to a persons emotional being.
all right- all those out there who own pets, or have owned pets will hopefully see my point of view and understand.
the rest of you can point and laugh at my weakness.... my cat is dying.
she is 119 in people years, i guess it's to be expected that she go sometime, but still it sucks!
Joanna
My heart goes out to you, I just had to let go of one of my kitty's a short time ago, sweetie, I know how you feel and my heart is breaking for you. We have such a strong bond with our beloved animals, and when we must say good-bye to them, it is heart-wrenching. I shed tears for your sorrow, and want to let you know I am thinking of you. Hugs and Kisses.
The puppy. :X
ok, now, it is time for a fluff thread.
what is your favorite candy?
my wife likes mounds.
Smarties!
"When you eat your Smarties, do you eat the red ones last? (Yes)
"Do you suck them very slowly, or crunch them very fast? (I crack them in half, suck out the chocolate, and crunch the candie part.)
AERO BARS (Comfort food)
hi folks,.
i'm rather new here, only posted a couple of times.
although i have been visiting the site daily for a good 2 months now.
Scuba
If I where you, I would put up the tree, and enjoy the excitement with your knew bride, what is important now is the life the two of you have togeather, your father has already expressed how he feels. Do what your wife would like, that would make the two of you happy.
It took me 4 years to decorate, only because of fear of what JW's would think of me, now I do what makes me happy. You can't please everybody, please yourself.
sabine and i will be celebrating our 28th anniversary this weekend!
woooohoooo!
and they (parents and gloom and doomers from the kh where we first met) said it would not last because we were in our teens when we got married - me 19, her 18.. we have been through some very tough times, (the hardest of course the death of our daughter) - however, the good times and prospects for the future far outweigh the bad.
Will not be here on weekend, my best bud Orangefatcat and I are going away, Friday is my Birthday, so we are going to celebrate.
I want to take the opportunity now to say CONGRATULATIONS to you both on the weekend and have a good one. Today is our Anniversary (31 years) not counting the 4 years we dated before.
it is our 31st wedding anniversary today, i awoke this morning and was so happy.
then i realized the date sept. 11, this time last year and the attack in ny.
this time last year as we sat a watched the twin towers come down.
Thanks to you all for the remembrance of a Happy, yet sad day.
it is our 31st wedding anniversary today, i awoke this morning and was so happy.
then i realized the date sept. 11, this time last year and the attack in ny.
this time last year as we sat a watched the twin towers come down.
It is our 31st Wedding Anniversary today, I awoke this morning and was so happy. Then I realized the date Sept. 11, this time last year and the attack in NY. This time last year as we sat a watched the Twin Towers come down. When I think of the people who lost their lives that day, it brought tears to my eyes. Please say a small prayer for the lost lives, husband and wives who never have the chance to celebrate an anniversary togeather again. Thanx.
well guys, i just cant do it.
for a long time now i have been trying to get on with my life and try to forget the rage and hurt i feel at the wtbs.
my resignation from the board a few weeks back was part of this.
Sometimes, it is hard to go on in a different direction then you were used to. Hindsight, I am sure alot of us could have had things turn out differently it would have been better. I always think of the wasted years in the org. the guilt I felt when I left was tremendous, not the guilt for leaving, the guilt of wasted years of being controlled by others. It takes alot of time and healing for some to get over all these feelings. I try to meet new friends, keep busy in life to forget the past. It isn't always easy, but then what in life is really easy, you just take one day at a time. If we concentrate about what we left behind and brow-beat ourselves over it, we may never get ahead in life. Life is to short, not to begin to live a happy and content life again, a life free to do what you want.