Posts by frittin

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What would you do?

by frittin in

i am new to this forum and would like to have some feedback.

i am one of jw's.

have been for 27 years.

What would you do?

by frittin in

i am new to this forum and would like to have some feedback.

i am one of jw's.

have been for 27 years.

frittin

Sounds just alike. I thought it anly happened in my case.

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What would you do?

by frittin in

i am new to this forum and would like to have some feedback.

i am one of jw's.

have been for 27 years.

No, she was not Df'd. Nor was I. The Elders tried to talk to her on numerous occasion, but she would refuse to talk. Even closing the door in thier faces. She would refuse shepherding calls. My decison is for a divorce. She knows that. I already have a good lawyer.

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What would you do?

by frittin in

i am new to this forum and would like to have some feedback.

i am one of jw's.

have been for 27 years.

frittin

I am new to this forum and would like to have some feedback. I am one of JW's. Have been for 27 years. I have been married for 25. The father of 2 grown sons. Four and 1/2 years ago, I found out that my wife, also a JW had been carrying an affair with 3 different men. The classic signs were there. the phone would ring. If I answered it, they would hang up. Once, the guy asked for her and when I asked him why, he just said he'd call back. She pretended not to know who it was. Then she started answering the phone. Within 5 minutes of hanging up, she'd be out of the door like the house was on fire. She'd stay out for a few hours, then come back and wash out her underwear. That went on for months. I wanted to know who it was that could get her out of the house that fast.

So, I bought a small tape recorder that could tape both sides of the conversation. Put it in my computer and connected it to the phone jack on the computer. Everytime the computer got a dial tone, it would start recording. I know that it was illegal, but I did it anyway. I did that for about 6 months. On Friday, 10/13/2000, I got the conversation with her and one of those men saying what they did, how they did it and they even made arrangments to spend the night at his house. So could do that because she worked nights. So, she would dress in her nursing uniform and leave as if she was going to work, and sleep with him.

She told him she don't have to sleep in anyone's bed but his, she's the boss in his bed and she only sleeps naked in his bed and not mine. It's not one of those conversations that you walk into and it sounds like they're talking about one thing but talking about something else. This is the whole conversation from start to finish. At this point, I wanted out. Not only because of this, but for other things she's been doing in the past. I have letters that she would write to me telling me how much see love men and how wild she can be with them.

December of 2000, I moved out. When I told her about the tape, she confessed that she had been going to Atlantic City with him and spending nights with him and so forth. also on the tape there's a conversation she had with her health care provider, which was the first conversation. I gave the tape to the Elders, and asked them to listen to the second conversation. They listened to the health care one. Told me I had no proof. One of the Elders even went on to say:" With today's technology, that could be anybody on that tape. Are you sure that'a not you and her on that tape?" At that point I took that tape and left. Feedback, please. I have already made up my mind what I'm going to do. But, please send me some feed back anyway.

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Says he spent weekend, but didn't have sex

by rollercoaster in

o.k., this is a long story.

i was married to a jw, (i am a jw) he left me, and i begged him not to go, he went to where his x-wife lives for work, he says he spent the weekends at her place, but didn't sleep with her.

3 months later, he came back, and i let him stay, then he left me again.