Good question, Jalisco. Family relationships should continue but no spiritual association. Unless there are some health issues, parents don't associate with df'd or da'd adult children with minor children the parents still have a responsibility for their care. Adult children still have responsibilities to help parents with health and/or financial that requires caregiving. As to spouses, a spouse being df'd or da'd does not end the marriage arrangement. Still function as a couple, but not in spiritual matters. I would think that would still apply, I did not get the idea from the August 2024 WT, that there would be social association with df'd jws, but inviting them to the meetings (before only the elders were to make contact with df'd people). So that is a difference. But no going out to eat, or movies. I'll check it more thoroughly, but this is what I got from the info so far. August WT 2024, p. 30-31 "Does what we have considered mean that we would completely ignore a person who has been removed from the congregation? Not necessarily. Certainly, we would not socialize with him. But Christians can use their Bible-trained conscience in deciding whether to invite a person who was removed from the congregation—perhaps a relative or someone they were close to previously—to attend a congregation meeting. What if he attends? In the past, we would not greet such a person. Here again, each Christian needs to use his Bible-trained conscience in this matter. Some may feel comfortable with greeting or welcoming the person to the meeting. However, we would not have an extended conversation or socialize with the individual." Article Help for Those Who Are Removed From the Congregation
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Reddit thread on convention video urging cutting off contact with Faders
by LongHairGal ini just read this.
don’t know if anybody here has seen the video.. the intended result of this is to obviously scare ‘faders’ out of the shadows.
now, they are being threatened with loss of association with their loved ones and friends.
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SDAs Campaigning in my Area
by NotFormer innot even as active as the jws (whom i have not seen for around a year now), nevertheless i get an occasional leaflet or other publication in my letterbox that seems to be seventh day adventist in origin.. the booklet i received the other day was entitled "national sunday law".
i also had received this book years ago when i had some dealings with the sdas.. from reddit: "national sunday law involves a conspiracy theory which alleges that the united states government is on the verge of enacting a national blue law that would make sunday a day of rest and worship.
the theory depends on the idea that the pope is the antichrist and the mark of the beast is worshipped on sunday.
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blondie
The SDA is the WTS’s variant from a branched timeline.
The term "Second Adventist" is a broader term encompassing various groups that share a belief in the Second Coming, while "Seventh-day Adventist" specifically refers to a denomination that observes Saturday as the Sabbath, also believing in the imminent Second Coming. Second Adventists (like Seventh-day Adventists) believe in an imminent, literal return of Christ in the flesh, while Russell and Jehovah's Witnesses believe in an invisible, spiritual return. Second Adventists generally believe in the divinity of Christ, including His pre-existence and role in creation, while Russell's (Bible Students, name changed to Jehovah’s Witnesses in 1931 by Rutherford; Bible Students do not consider themselves as Jehovah’s witnesses at any time) Jehovah's Witnesses teach that Christ was created by God and is not a deity. Second Adventists generally believe in the Trinity, while Jehovah's Witnesses believe in the supremacy of God and reject the Trinity. (Charles Taze Russell was never part of a Second Adventist group though he read some of their teachings and discuss teachings with members, eventually left for some basic doctrinal differences as outlined above)
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Where is Reinhard Lengtat?
by jst2laws insorry for the posting error below.. my wife is reading crisis of conscience now.
this is good news because i know i will have someone to talk to when im caught and dfd.
but in her reading she is recognizing most of the names ( we were there at bethel during the 70s as a married couple) and asked what happened to reinhard lengtat?
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blondie
Thanks delldub.
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The Governing Body is Restructuring the Org.and encouranging young ones to REACH OUT!
by liam inthe governing body just doesn't let up on encouraging the young children to reach out to do free labor for the organization.
so another generation of young people with ruined lives.
another generation of young people that will get old and wake up in their 50s to realize they were in a religious doomsday cult.. and they are getting rid of some old workers that ran the branches of the organization, and giving them different assignments or maybe they are just sending them home, who knows.
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blondie
The WTS passes the buck to a nebulous congregation out there. No follow up, no contacting the congregation to see if they follow through. There is no organized program in a congregation to be sure someone is assigned (or several people) to keep track of how they eating, getting places, even the meetings or doctor visits, etc. If an elder assigns (or "asks" someone to volunteer) there is no followup. There was an older woman in the congregation, no jw family, and she needed help. The elders told me that first the non-jw family was obligated first to help her! Of course, jws are told to avoid non-jw family. I was stunned. So I helped her, she had been a good friend to our family. So I helped her and another woman who had no jw family. It seemed that only older jws they were concerned about were those with money, that the elders "pressured" or advised to donate that money to the congregation or the WTS. I have many, many experiences with the WTS, local and national, that shows there is no real love for anyone in the congregation. Here is what the WTS has put in writing but I have never seen it put in practice, except maybe one or two jws who are considered low on totem pole in the congregation. "In some lands, governmental authorities provide pensions, welfare programs, and home-care attendants for senior citizens. (Rom. 13:6) Elsewhere, no such organized services exist. Hence, how much physical assistance relatives and the congregation need to provide for older brothers and sisters varies from situation to situation. If believing children live far from their parents, it may affect how much help the children reasonably are in a position to provide. The children would do well to communicate freely with the elders of their parents’ congregation to make sure that all understand the family’s circumstances. For instance, the elders may be able to help out by assisting the parents to learn about and benefit from governmental or social programs locally. They may also observe situations—such as unopened bills or mismanaged medication—that they can bring to the attention of adult children. Such well-motivated and kind interchanges of information can prevent a situation from getting worse and may well lead to practical solutions. Clearly, on-the-spot helpers and advisers, who effectively act as the children’s “eyes,” may alleviate the worries of a family." 2014 WT March 15, p.23 pp. 15
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SDAs Campaigning in my Area
by NotFormer innot even as active as the jws (whom i have not seen for around a year now), nevertheless i get an occasional leaflet or other publication in my letterbox that seems to be seventh day adventist in origin.. the booklet i received the other day was entitled "national sunday law".
i also had received this book years ago when i had some dealings with the sdas.. from reddit: "national sunday law involves a conspiracy theory which alleges that the united states government is on the verge of enacting a national blue law that would make sunday a day of rest and worship.
the theory depends on the idea that the pope is the antichrist and the mark of the beast is worshipped on sunday.
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blondie
HereIam60, here is a link which recounts what Harold Camping said about 2 Timothy 3:6 (Just reporting not supporting) https://studyingprayer.com/2011/06/06/the-great-apostasy-of-the-last-days-is-here/
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Changes to Legal Pressure
by blondie ini knew some of the changes the wts did due to legal pressure, but here are some i didn't.https://www.jwfacts.com/watchtower/blog/changes-due-to-legal-pressure.php .
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blondie
I knew some of the changes the WTS did due to legal pressure, but here are some I didn't.https://www.jwfacts.com/watchtower/blog/changes-due-to-legal-pressure.php
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SDAs Campaigning in my Area
by NotFormer innot even as active as the jws (whom i have not seen for around a year now), nevertheless i get an occasional leaflet or other publication in my letterbox that seems to be seventh day adventist in origin.. the booklet i received the other day was entitled "national sunday law".
i also had received this book years ago when i had some dealings with the sdas.. from reddit: "national sunday law involves a conspiracy theory which alleges that the united states government is on the verge of enacting a national blue law that would make sunday a day of rest and worship.
the theory depends on the idea that the pope is the antichrist and the mark of the beast is worshipped on sunday.
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blondie
BTW, the WTS charged publishers for the publications they used from door to door, and included subscriptions to the magazines. If those publishers did not get money from the non-jw, that individual ate the cost, the WTS got their money already, since jws paid the WTS upfront for publications. My info comes for my SDA relative. SDA approach is not the same as the WTS model.
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The End of the Times of the Gentiles and the Restoration of the Kingdom
by EisMe inthe end of the times of the gentiles and the restoration of the kingdom.
the final stage of god’s plan on earth.
the fulfillment of prophecy: the end of the gentile age.
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blondie
In the Insight book volume 2 under "resurrection." it says this crazy thing: "Resurrection During 1,000 Years. The exact number of humans who have ever lived is unknown to humans. However, by way of illustration, if Jehovah resurrects 20 billion (20,000,000,000) people, there would be no problem as to living space and food for them. The land surface of the earth at present is about 148,000,000 sq km (57,000,000 sq mi), or about 14,800,000,000 ha (36,500,000,000 acres). Even allowing half of that to be set aside for other uses, there would be more than a third of a hectare (almost 1 acre) for each person. As to earth’s potential food production, a third of a hectare will actually provide much more than enough food for one person, especially when, as God has demonstrated in the case of the nation of Israel, there is abundance of food as a result of God’s blessing."
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2025 Convention. How to deal with PIMOs in the Congregation. Copy Jesus in the way he dealt with Satan on the MT.
by liam inthe video on apostates in the congregation and how to deal with them at the 18 minute mark.
https://www.reddit.com/r/exjw/comments/1kssfr9/2025_convention_apostate_video/.
so by now, a lot of us have seen a clip from the "apostate" video from the 2025 convention.
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blondie
I guess those elders think jws don't read or watch the news! But I kept things like that to myself. I was PIMO and had no desire to educate other jws, would more likely believe it, if they discovered themselves, just saying.
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Is there a new rule regarding disfellowshipped people?
by HOTB indoes anyone have any information about a relaxing of the rules regarding family reaching out to disfellowshipped members?.
i've heard of an elder being openly in touch with a long time disfellowshipped family member.
apparently the term 'compassionate view' had been bandied about.. i can't find anything relating to this.. i'd be interested what the new rule is in when came into play.. hotb .
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blondie
Vidiot, I guess the WTS would like to keep the money coming in from rank and file jws so those people don't forget to keep donating. Lack of growth would definitely cut back on donations, jws that vote with their "pocketbook," and the fast disappearing old jws.