What do you want to happen?
If you will lose family or have other goodvreason not to be shunned by them, did you appeal? if not and it is still within 7 days, do so... right now . Any old reason will do. At the appeal committee, grovel , beg plead newfound repentence , make them see that the first decision was wrong. It might work . The first committee will hate you but no matter.
If you don't mind being outside , follow the good advice given above. It is not easy starting over , the world seems scary but little by little it will get easier.
Keep posting here . We understand.