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  The toxic JW Worldview

  by TD in

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  sometimes i forget how small-minded, petty, provincial, mean-spirited ignorant and judgemental it was and still is.... then i sit down with a jw relative, hoping to have a normal conversation and realize there is literally nothing to talk about.. nothing..... current events?

  hobbies?

  your job?

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  BluesBrother

  I hate to be the one who differs , ( not really ) but my experience is that they will talk about anything...... except their faith.

  In tne pre covid times we used to get together with my wife's dubby friends. It was no big problem to me because they would natter on about stuff quite normally.... They would talk about their holidays, their ailments share advice how to use their computers, anything . They did avoid politics, and television, unless it was harmless stuff but I am sure they all had opinions unspoken . My wife might try and inject a note of "sprirituality" into the conversation but it die like a damp squib.

  Perhaps the dubs around your way are more " theocratic "?
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  The Black Goat in the JW Covid-19 Report - 2020 Governing Body Update #5

  by Oh-my-God in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  did you notice this?

  2020 governing body update #5. https://www.jw.org/en/library/videos/#en/mediaitems/latestvideos/docid-702020307_1_video.

  why do they show the black goat in the picture?

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  BluesBrother

  It is not a real one, is it?

  Strange choice of decoration though, considering their opposition to wildlife game hunting. Could cause some debate among those I know that are passionately against animal cruelty.

  Perhaps he hangs his hat on it in the Winter?

  Whatever, I am sure there is no hidden meaning to this.
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  Another Unnecessary Early Death

  by Slidin Fast in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  a young man in somerset in england, under massive pressure from financial and relationship issues lapsed into mental illness.

  he was unlucky enough to have as his support system the local congregation of jehovah's witnesses.

  one of the symptoms of his illness was the use of tobacco.

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  BluesBrother

  A tragic end to a very sad story.

  On the one hand I can see that the elders on the committee may have felt they had little choice, since they are merely rulebook followers and have little discretion.

  I was at an elders school many years ago when the question was asked whether mental health should be considered in judicial cases. The answer was that if a person is cognizant enough to live and care for himself, mental health should not be considered.

  Surely though, in this day and age, clear case like this shoul have prompted them to cut him a little slack.

  I can see that attending an assembly as D/f could be the last straw.
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  Did You Have Good Relationships With The Elders?

  by minimus in

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  2. friends

  my experience was that most jws wanted to have an elder “friend” just in case they got into any “trouble “.kinda like knowing that certain cop who might get you out of a jam.

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  of course there was another group who did everything they could to either kiss the elders’ ass or stonewall them anytime they came snooping around.. how did you and the “older men” get along?.

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  BluesBrother

  I was one ....

  I didn't used to really get on with the others. When I was younger and fairly new to it there were some really experienced and capable ones that I looked up to, but you could never call them friends. When I found my feet I had nothing else in common with the others. It was a working relationship , like you have in your job.

  I'd rather spend time with the "lesser" ones.. youngsters, oldies and eccentric ones in the cong.
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  Zoom meetings, how long ?

  by Phizzy in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i was wondering two things, 1: how long in total are the zoom meetings, i presume the sunday one is the longest ?.

  and 2: if you use zoom for free, the session only lasts 40 minutes, so do they have an intermission so people can log back in, or are all jw's expected to pay for the "privilege" ?.

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  BluesBrother

  In UK socialising face to face in groups is banned by the Government and the Society, so to do so would be disobeying the F &D Slave.... They have a chat session after the zoomed WT ,all virtual of course.

  I say long may it continue ! Three cheers for Zoom. It is going to be hell when wife has to back to the hall.
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  Things stated at the District Convention

  by Queequeg in

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  another post i made tonight reminded me of this.. what if a speaker at the district convention (is it still called that?

  ) makes a statement.

  this doesn't jive with what you think the wtbts promotes.

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  BluesBrother

  Yes, they are very careful to present a uniform message.. That is why most of them are manuscript talks , read verbatum ...in other words...boring..

  I was told once that to be an assembly speaker you needed a voice that was clear through the PA system and to be one who could be trusted to stick to the outline.

  So no more of the "good" speakers who would slip anecdotes and wry humour into it.... 😴
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  Where Is BLONDIE?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i might have missed this but blondie was always one of the best posters here.

  her analysis and commentary was spot on.. is everything ok with her?

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  BluesBrother

  If you contact Blondie, tell her BluesBrother sends his best wishes. She is fondly remembered and sadly missed.
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  Galaxies and 49000 years

  by HowTheBibleWasCreated in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  now today this is of course a non-issue.

  the wt has embraced the big bang/old earth etc just not evolution.

  in fact the creator book has some decent info.. however i have a good copy of the 1958 paradise book.

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  BluesBrother

  Have to say that :

  1) WTS abandoned the 7000 YEAR Creative day belief decades ago . Now it is admitted they don't know how long they were.

  2) A creative day refers to the preparing of the Earth not the creation of the Universe. Tney say the stars and planets existed unfathomable time beforehand.
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  From reddit...How old were you when you became a publisher?

  by Biahi in

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  2. experiences

  i was six, not given any choice.

  i remember being in the old kh, and my dad told me the brothers wanted to talk to me in the back...i was terrified.

  i actually thought they knew i didn’t want to be a dub, my dad told them to just add me as a publisher, so no back room meeting.

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  BluesBrother

  Young....Too young. I don't want to say exactly because people have been "outed" for giving personal information.

  What did I know? Only what I was told.

  Back in those days there was not a formal process , but you had to be able to say something to the householders. I used to offer the 2 magazines for 10 old pence . We asked for money in those days.
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  2020 Convention- Worse fear-mongering propaganda video

  by Newly Enlightened in

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  https://youtu.be/p7jx8sbghck .

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  BluesBrother

  I let my beleiving wife see it. She sniffed and said " If the public see that, they will think we are a bunch of nutters!"

  er....Yes..