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  What’s the big deal with birthday cake?

  by Addison0998 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  how strict were the jehovah’s witnesses you knew about birthday cake?

  i knew a girl who saw a few pieces of cake in the break room at her work, and ate a peice, then found out later that it was left over birthday cake.

  she felt so guilty and was scared about a bad impression she left on her work mates.

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  Was allowed to save the cake or candy until the next day and then it was fair game. I was an adult before I had fresh birthday cake hahahahaha stupid bastards
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  Something fishy

  by I Faded Twice in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  ok so just thinking it over here.

  in the recent montana lawsuit wt had to show their net worth.

  it came in at like 1.6 billion i think.

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  You may be right about them hiding the money OrphanCrow.

  When I was in I viewed all the leaders as sincere believers and since I've been out it is really hard to shake that feeling. I have a hard time getting myself to understand that there are shrewd businessmen at the helm of the organization and that they are not all true believers.

  I guess I always sort of thought of the witnesses as a religion that went wrong and kept going wrong. I need to start thinking of it as less a religion and more of a business with lawyers and bankers and stuff. they have done a good job of hiding that part of the religion or business from the rank and file.
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  Is attendance down in your location too?

  by StarryNight9 in

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  2. friends

  i was commenting on another thread about how local kh attendance is down.

  memorial attendance was also way down and the circuit assembly had hundreds less people than what is typical.

  my jw family has even mentioned it.

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  Wife's congregation is much smaller than it used to be. She even told me that the hall feels empty now. It's not empty but definitely less in attendance. I should drive by to check the parking lot during a meeting.

  I've got relatives from the Midwest that told my wife, not me of course, that their meeting attendance has gone down a lot in the past few years. They're older and concerned their hall will be sold and they'll have to travel a lot farther.

  I've heard a lot more witnesses are using the call in option and listening to the meeting. Probably depends on congregation.
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  2018/19 new light

  by Ray Frankz in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  hi guys, long time without paying a visit to this site.

  today i returned to check a 'gossip' that is running around in brazilian exjw forums.. they are stating that is almost certain they will make a big change in their doctrine maybe this year yet in the annual meeting.

  they say people in warwick were commenting on this.

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  I think they'd get more recruits if they let everyone parktake. The memorial is odd enough as it is but let everyone parktake and at least it seems a bit more normal.

  I hope they DO NOT make this change. I would hate for any other people to be fooled by them.
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  Mike and Kim updated thier Numbers and it looks like the Borg is watching.

  by Crazyguy in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  thier latest video they seemed to fix thier number issues and have made it look as though the borg only has about a half a million member now in the us.

  also it looks as though the borg is watching because the borg has now made an adjustment on their website concerning their missing kh.

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  Great thread. Thanks
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  Sarah Huckabee Sanders Kicked Out Of Restaurant For Supporting Trump

  by minimus in

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  i think it’s ridiculous to kick people and families out of a restaurant because of politics.

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  I don't like Sarah
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  Roll Call for the benefit of Newbies and Lurkers. In One Sentence tell why you left the Org.

  by Wasanelder Once in

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  2. beliefs

  roll call for the benefit of newbies and lurkers.

  in one sentence tell why you left the org.

  not 2 sentences.

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  Lots that was already mentioned but the 607 date issue really opened my eyes to their dishonesty.
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  Self indulgent attention whore thread....

  by _Morpheus in

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  2. current

  today is my birthday :) in happy to be able to say that guilt free!

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  Happy birthday
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  A Little Direction Please

  by Brian J in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i'm an active elder, cobe, just got home from the meeting where i handled the treasures part and concluded by announcing a friend of mine has been d/f,.....blah blah blah...and over the last year have woken up.

  i simply cannot spill my guts to my wife and children as it would be family suicide.

  i have zero desire to bash, spread my feelings, or become an "apostate".

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  Good luck guys. I'm glad you posted here because there is so much support.

  I stepped aside, my wife is still in but all my kids are free.
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  An unusual question

  by no-zombie in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i have an unusual question.. and it is ... who actually owns and runs this site?.

  with no ads ... how does it keep going?.

  no-zombie.

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  I also do not use ad blocking on the site and click on them once in awhile to help the site.