Also, if they are not a good kisser, then they are generally not good ...tal
Its not a matter of them not being a good kisser in general but more of like one specific thing that I dont like in the midst of good kissing. Saying to tell them gently is one thing but when it comes down to it, that is just a hard subject to approach, how do you even say something like that "gently" when you really know this person is awesome in every other way and you really like them? Do you just have to accept that the other person will be offended and it will be awkward?
Sorry, I was with only one person for five years and one of the only good things I can say about it is that it was all good in that department, so I dont know what to expect or how to deal with a new situation.
-April