LOL @ Keysersore driving miss daisy seems about right.
OMG Knowitall that it terrible What jerks his parents are. amzing that your relationship survived all that.
I have a couple of stories. First some background. My mother ( 3rd generation jw) lived (in sin) with a man before she met my dad. This was told to me by my half brothers they lived in this man house as well. Mom and this guy shared the same bedroom. Mom was never df'd. Now my mom meets my dad. My brothers are 17 and 14 they along with mom move into my dads house. mom and dad were married about a year later. 3 years alter I come along. All this time I am thinking that mom has only ever been with their dad and my dad, thats it no premarital sex. Boy was I wrong.
So here I am 22 dating this goober from another congregation. The only thing good about him is that he is cute. He has no way about him that a girl could like. I find out he has never had a girlfriend before. I am immediately turned off. I can't stand being the one to teach a man how to act around me. so this relationshp doesn't last very long. Anyway we went to this elders fanily's house to learn some new line dancing steps. My mother said to call when you get there and call rught before you leave. so I did. a group of JW's would go to the dance place every sunder after the meeting for line dancing. So this guy and I went there. Then Mike who wasn't even an MS, but he appointed himself my guardian. ( I guess because my brother was df'd and not around) Told me he better not hear of me being in a truck alone with a brother ever again. I told him I did exactly as my mother instructed. So he should lay off of me.
So one to the next brother I dated. I was 23 he was 32. He said I was being silly about always having to have someone else in the car with us. He was an MS. I said hey in my congregation I get a lot of shit for being alone with a guy I just follow the rules so I don't hear about from ayone. He and I meet at a resturant. We drove separate cars to the resturant. We were sitting across the table from each other, just talking. My mother storms in at 11pm and points her finger at me and says you need to get home now. I wasn't doing a damn thing besides talking to him. He puts his head on the table and laughs and says that he has never been so embarrassed in all his life. Oh how I wish that I never about mom living in sin with dad at that time in my life. I would have embarrassed her right there in the resturant.
So now I am 24 I meet my future hubby. we go alone places together despite everyone else. But I have a hard time relaxing when we are out on a date because I know I am going to catch hell when I get home. So one night he has a job to do. We go power washing sidewalks for his brother. we do this late at night because the businesses are closed. so we spend all night cleaning sidewalks. I know it sounds stupid but I had fun working with him. so around 6am I we get back to my house. boy was my mom pissed off. If looks could kill I would have been dead a 100 times.
No wonder we eloped. that way we didn't have to hear everyone's crap. so after we are married I tell hubby that I want to do it in a car. because apparantly this is where all the dating couple do it their first time.. LOL OMG the car is the most uncomfortable place in the world to have sex. Why would anyone want to do it in a car?!?!
