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Assistance Received!--2020-August-S-147-E Announcements And Reminders! (as of 2020-08-02)

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someone has stepped forward to assist us.

that sure didn't take very long!.

2020-august-s-147-e announcements and reminders, in english and in german.. .

2020-06-26--Announcement and Outlines for July and August!

by Atlantis in

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announcement:.

the following outlines should be presented in the christian life and ministry meeting during the dates specified below.

please assign a qualified elder to apply the material locally.

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)

by usualusername1 in

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the short version what you experience before your 18th birthday has a direct impact on your mental and physical health.. tell me more dr felitti created a test of experiences/traumas before your 18th birthday.

over 17,000 people took part and over 70 follow up studies have verified the findings.

in essence the higher your aces score the more risk you have mentally and physically.

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The Short Version
What you experience before your 18th birthday has a direct impact on your mental and physical health.

Tell me more
Dr Felitti created a test of experiences/traumas before your 18th birthday. Over 17,000 people took part and over 70 follow up studies have verified the findings. In essence the higher your ACEs score the more risk you have mentally and physically. You can take the test here https://acestoohigh.com/got-your-ace-score/

Give me even more
Dr Felitti worked for a Private health firm on helping patients with obesity. One patient was morbidly obese (circa 120kgs) and after support dropped to circa 50kgs. Then a few months later she was heavier then when morbidly obese. He asked his patient what happened. When she had lost her weight someone at worked flirted with her and it freaked her out. In a panic she became overweight again. After more interviews he found out that she has been sexually abused by her father. Her obesity appeared to have nothing to do with food. He then identified other sources of trauma and came up with a list of 10.

The test can be completed in the link above but is in full below:

Prior to your 18th birthday:

1. Did a parent or other adult in the household often or very often… Swear at you, insult you, put you down, or humiliate you? or Act in a way that made you afraid that you might be physically hurt?

2. Did a parent or other adult in the household often or very often… Push, grab, slap, or throw something at you? or Ever hit you so hard that you had marks or were injured?

3. Did an adult or person at least 5 years older than you ever… Touch or fondle you or have you touch their body in a sexual way? or Attempt or actually have oral, anal, or vaginal intercourse with you?

4. Did you often or very often feel that … No one in your family loved you or thought you were important or special? or Your family didn’t look out for each other, feel close to each other, or support each other?

5. Did you often or very often feel that … You didn’t have enough to eat, had to wear dirty clothes, and had no one to protect you? or Your parents were too drunk or high to take care of you or take you to the doctor if you needed it?

6. Were your parents ever separated or divorced?

7. Was your mother or stepmother:
Often or very often pushed, grabbed, slapped, or had something thrown at her? or Sometimes, often, or very often kicked, bitten, hit with a fist, or hit with something hard? or Ever repeatedly hit over at least a few minutes or threatened with a gun or knife?

8. Did you live with anyone who was a problem drinker or alcoholic, or who used street drugs?

9. Was a household member depressed or mentally ill, or did a household member attempt suicide?

10. Did a household member go to prison?

Now add up your “Yes” answers: _ This is your ACE Score

Who was tested?
Over 17,000 patients agreed to the test. 75% were white and 75% had degrees. All were middle class.

Even though 10 sources of trauma were identified many other factors could count:

· Born in a cult

· Poverty

· Racism

· Bullying

What do the scores mean?

The following are average ACE scores
Score 0 36%
Score 1 26%
Score 2 16%
Score 3 9.5%
Score 4+ 12.5%

If your score is 4 or more:

66% chance of chronic depression for a woman and 35% for men
Increased chance of taking anti-depressants
Score of 6 compared to zero increase suicide attempts by 5000%
Smoking, alcoholism, obesity, unwanted pregnancies, heart disease, liver disease, cancer and emphysema all increase drastically with a score of four or more.
Score of 6 or more reduces your life by 20 years

My score is 8 and I have PTSD. I am getting weekly therapy from a trauma counsellor, reading “The Body Keeps The Score” and doing yoga to get better.

Take care

Paul

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Article on front page of BBC website

by usualusername1 in

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https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-51006771.

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https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-51006771

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Economist article on JWs

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have not read it yet but will later.. https://www.economist.com/erasmus/2019/02/09/jehovahs-witnesses-often-clash-with-earthly-powers?fsrc=gp_en?fsrc=scn/fb/te/bl/ed/jehovahswitnessesoftenclashwithearthlypowersreligioussects.

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Have not read it yet but will later.

https://www.economist.com/erasmus/2019/02/09/jehovahs-witnesses-often-clash-with-earthly-powers?fsrc=gp_en?fsrc=scn/fb/te/bl/ed/jehovahswitnessesoftenclashwithearthlypowersreligioussects

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5 kingdom halls in New Addington for sale

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i had it confirmed today that 5 kingdom halls on one site in new addington are for sale.

price being asked £3.5 million.. every witness in london worked on that site.

am in shock.

usualusername1

Will follow your thread with interest.

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5 kingdom halls in New Addington for sale

by usualusername1 in

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i had it confirmed today that 5 kingdom halls on one site in new addington are for sale.

price being asked £3.5 million.. every witness in london worked on that site.

am in shock.

usualusername1

Rules and regulations. I am 99% sure this is the site.

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5 kingdom halls in New Addington for sale

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i had it confirmed today that 5 kingdom halls on one site in new addington are for sale.

price being asked £3.5 million.. every witness in london worked on that site.

am in shock.

usualusername1

Only one congregation remains. That is New Addington. They are staying to babysit the site. They have been trying to sell since 2015.

No idea where the other congregations have been sent packing.

I cannot imagine anyone giving a penny to pay for a new hall. This cost the brothers much more than £3.5 million.

There is HUGE uproar at this.

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5 kingdom halls in New Addington for sale

by usualusername1 in

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i had it confirmed today that 5 kingdom halls on one site in new addington are for sale.

price being asked £3.5 million.. every witness in london worked on that site.

am in shock.

usualusername1

I had it confirmed today that 5 kingdom halls on one site in New Addington are for sale. Price being asked £3.5 million.

Every witness in London worked on that site.

Am in shock. Please forgive if this has been posted already.

Paul

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Trying to find Elder Clive Wren.

by usualusername1 in

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heh.

i am trying to get in contact with clive wren from the uk.

he served in croydon, gujarati and lymington.. not sure if he is still active or not.. if he is still serving the name of his congregation would be amazing.. thanks.

usualusername1

Thanks guys. Will use these resources.

My friend has a few weeks to live and has asked me to find him!

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