Hello Gabriella, Haven't seen you in a couple of years almost...and I have to say I agree with the way Junction guy put it. It truly is crazy how they just pop up and all of the sudden think you need to eat some spiritual bull crap. Odd huh? You seem to be making your way just fine with out being forcefed some brainwashing. I hope things are working out for you hon. Good morning! Don't torture yourself through that dang study BTW...Just my two cents.
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offers to study after going inactive!!
by gabriella ini just recieved my third offer to have a bible study after being inactive for several years.
hello,, i remember where the kh is if i wanted to attend and i think after five meetings a week my whole life i know what the teachings are without having another "study".
i just found it very degrading and arrogant to assume that there must be something "wrong with me" or that i "needed help".
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I'm sick...
by exwitless ini've gotten the obligatory "back to school" cold.
it happens every year when our son goes back to school - he brings home some kind of cold bug.
my head hurts, my face hurts, i'm dizzy, my throat is scratchy.
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Hey sweetie, I missed all of the hub bub. But tel LDB not to do that mess. Just back up for a bit,,then get back in here. we all have had to do it. Things push our nerves. then piss us off and well we get back in the swing and move right on by whatever it was. BTW.. must have misse the whole thing. I have no clue. But not knowing is alright too sometimes...SOMEtimes. Just wanted to say, I hope he just steps off a bit and realizes it is not worth leaving really
I am sorry you have a cold. I got one too from the elementary school and feel like crap. So I am debating which side of the bed to sleep in all day today. I am going to take some meds, and try to aim for more sleep today. I am with you in feeling like poo. So sorry my dear. I hope you feel better...
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Dfed and Damned for Life
by Hangin_on ini have posted my story on here before.
i was dfed at 22 for sleeping with an 18yr old girl in my cong.
i was married and me and my "mistress" were both dfed.. i admit i was wrong by even the worlds standards.
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OMG...OMG...OMG... I am sitting here and about to be ill. I see myself and my life a good 18 years ago. Please if anything gets through to you. Take that new wife of yours and run. Hold her, love her, and love that new baby that is coming. Forget the appeals and screw the opinion they have of you. Forget the months of making you wait on an answer or the endless hours of wondering why or if you are good enough and even if they get back to you now...don't accept it. Fact is they are not good enough for you.
The love they offer is conditional. That is not love. Listen to what you are saying. You have paid the price. You have screwed up. You have righted what you can, now it is time to move on. Your ex wife is trying to and sad to say, she seems to be taking the wiser path and leaving the JW's behind. From your viewpoint right now it may seem to you that her life may be messed up, and it may be a little. But at this point, her mind may be healing a lot more than yours. because from the little you described, she might just be letting the mind control lose some of the hold it has over her.
You on the other hand need to seriously look at what you are asking. A Divorce?? Come on now? Do you love your new wife and child? Then it needs to have NOTHING to do with a bunch of old fucktards sitting in judgement over you that are not in your household. Sure they seem to have power over you because they keep you and her from associating with family right now, but truly, they seem to be doing you a favor. Who wants to be with someone who only calls when they need your help.
I sound harsh right now, but hon, it is from 3 times sitting in your shoes and loosing loved ones because I had that same mindset you hold right now.
Please hang in there...but not with this wacked religion. Hang in there with your wife. Your child. You and her did all this and let it go. Start loving each other fresh NOW. Love each other for each other and without a second thought of the old WTBTS. You are kicked out...take it as the best gift you ever got and go do things with her.
All the things you ever wanted. Think on it. ALL you ever wanted is in front of you and they can't and won't stop you. Don't look back. Don't go back...run, don't walk...RUN.
If you can, try going with your wife to a counselor.. Not because there is anything wrong with you, but just give it a try. So that someone can help you perhaps open your eyes to see how twisted that religion has your head. This time should be so happy for you. A new wife, a new baby...The world in front of you! You are young! Not a time to be sitting and hurting and wondering what is wrong with you and stressing about how long you are going to have to wait on these people.. PEOPLE to respond. They have your head in the wrong place...
Just saying.
Oh I wish you so much love.
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Purps!~ I love it. It makes me feel so 1970's I can just see a face of a woman and her hair turning into her drawing...do you see what I am saying? Beautiful!!! You have a talent to be greatly admired!
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Describe the Perfect Woman or Man....
by Dragonlady76 inok after the serena williams thread and a few others that focus on looks i want to know what your idea of perfection in the opposite or same sex is.. i like muscular men with a full head of hair, i love classic features like a strong nose and jaw.. i also find blond blue eyed men sexy (don't ask me why).
i don't like that are to thin, nice teeth and soft eyes.. ok now it's your turn.. .
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maybe you shouldn't work on that second one.
Ok, and I won't spell if you won't spell! Tired already and second isn't finished. Bushed. Night.
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Describe the Perfect Woman or Man....
by Dragonlady76 inok after the serena williams thread and a few others that focus on looks i want to know what your idea of perfection in the opposite or same sex is.. i like muscular men with a full head of hair, i love classic features like a strong nose and jaw.. i also find blond blue eyed men sexy (don't ask me why).
i don't like that are to thin, nice teeth and soft eyes.. ok now it's your turn.. .
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Big Drew
Sorry about the uncajunafied spelling............
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Describe the Perfect Woman or Man....
by Dragonlady76 inok after the serena williams thread and a few others that focus on looks i want to know what your idea of perfection in the opposite or same sex is.. i like muscular men with a full head of hair, i love classic features like a strong nose and jaw.. i also find blond blue eyed men sexy (don't ask me why).
i don't like that are to thin, nice teeth and soft eyes.. ok now it's your turn.. .
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I want kindness and femininity, but I want to be challenged.
That is a given with today's women don't you think?
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Describe the Perfect Woman or Man....
by Dragonlady76 inok after the serena williams thread and a few others that focus on looks i want to know what your idea of perfection in the opposite or same sex is.. i like muscular men with a full head of hair, i love classic features like a strong nose and jaw.. i also find blond blue eyed men sexy (don't ask me why).
i don't like that are to thin, nice teeth and soft eyes.. ok now it's your turn.. .
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ummmmmmmmm sparkplug, i don't get it. am i the chicken? or....uuuummmmmmmmm
It was a Joke.. a Negra Modelo Joke. Working on my second one.
I suck at Jokes.
Oh yeah and they have to understand that I cant tell a joke to save my life and it is as funny as hell to watch.
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Describe the Perfect Woman or Man....
by Dragonlady76 inok after the serena williams thread and a few others that focus on looks i want to know what your idea of perfection in the opposite or same sex is.. i like muscular men with a full head of hair, i love classic features like a strong nose and jaw.. i also find blond blue eyed men sexy (don't ask me why).
i don't like that are to thin, nice teeth and soft eyes.. ok now it's your turn.. .
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Any man weaker than me will not have my respect
DING DING DING
One who does not put me on a pedestal.
DING DING DING
Nothing worse than being a trinket.
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Describe the Perfect Woman or Man....
by Dragonlady76 inok after the serena williams thread and a few others that focus on looks i want to know what your idea of perfection in the opposite or same sex is.. i like muscular men with a full head of hair, i love classic features like a strong nose and jaw.. i also find blond blue eyed men sexy (don't ask me why).
i don't like that are to thin, nice teeth and soft eyes.. ok now it's your turn.. .
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......and say...Misanna...What is that chicken your wearing?