Thanks for the varying degrees of experiences on this everyone:
Tetrapod: I don't think the Insight books even MENTION 586/87. They COMPLETELY ignore it. (Unless someone knows a place where it is mentioned. She has one volume opened up to Chronology and another one opened up to Zedekiah (subheading Fall of Jerusalem))
AK-JEFF: I gave her the KISS method by Alleymom that explains the regnal lengths of kings according to the Society's listings of the Babylonian kings about two months ago. This is the first time I have actually seen it out on the desk - as if she has been looking at it. I have kept my notes on 586 laying around lately. And I have been reading the bible alot more lately (Go figure ...). She does like to do deep research ... unfortunately all her research up til now has been reading the Botchtower and Asleep mags. Naturally, our busy JW schedules have kept her from REALLY doing research. She knows I have been hitting the research thing pretty hard lately - yet my JW stuff has been non-existant ... I imagine she either thinks (a) I'm turning apostate and she's nervous, or (b) I am just verifying and validating my JW faith, and she's giving me space.
Runningman: Thanks for the big-time encouragement. I hope that is the case.
Mulan: Awesome! I love it! I need to hear things like that more often. Where were you when I needed you a week ago! (j/k ... don't worry about it)
Kwin: I am mostly staying away from that for now ... if we get deep into the 70 years I may use Zechariah at least ... but in general save that for a while separate discussion
My original thread about breaking the news to my wife (which I still haven't done ... though I have been leaving clues around):
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/94888/1.ashx
Thanks again everyone. I'll keep you posted. We are over to North Carolina for vacation first thing in the morning, so I may only have sporadic internet access.
(I'll be on most of the night tonight though!)
-ithinkisee