It is imperative to get legal help if she is getting baptized to protect yourself and children in a medical emergency. You must not leave this in her hands.
What am I supposed to get legal advice about?
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My wife is getting baptized on the 19th!
by Check_Your_Premises inmy wife is getting baptized on the 19th.. i wrote her a letter today.
basically i asked her why she isn't coming to me to find out my concerns.
i am the person who has the most invested in her.
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My wife is getting baptized on the 19th!
by Check_Your_Premises inmy wife is getting baptized on the 19th.. i wrote her a letter today.
basically i asked her why she isn't coming to me to find out my concerns.
i am the person who has the most invested in her.
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I'd be willing to be good money that they won't put that in writing.
I thought of that.
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My wife is getting baptized on the 19th!
by Check_Your_Premises inmy wife is getting baptized on the 19th.. i wrote her a letter today.
basically i asked her why she isn't coming to me to find out my concerns.
i am the person who has the most invested in her.
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She assured me that if the kids needed a transfusion, and I wasn't there, she would approve it as long is that is what I wanted.
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My wife is getting baptized on the 19th!
by Check_Your_Premises inmy wife is getting baptized on the 19th.. i wrote her a letter today.
basically i asked her why she isn't coming to me to find out my concerns.
i am the person who has the most invested in her.
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I just told her that I am worried about how this will effect the family. I told her she doesn't ever seem to know the realities of the org, like the whole df of children thing. So a couple of elders are coming by to talk to me about it. Apparantly they are going to assure me that nothing is going to change. I don't know.
Any advice here? What do you think the chances of them agreeing that she should wait until I am more sure about the org. I am not an outright opposer you see. I am open to the idea, I just have to study more. WHich means if I see a burning bush or if the stones cry out I might buy it. So since they don't want to piss me off and lose me as a prospect, what if I asked for her to wait.
If I agree she gets dunked next time. If I don't she still gets dunked next time. It will just give me more time, and let me be more sure about things.
So I say something like, "Right now I feel like I am losing control of my family, and that is causing me to feel negatively about the org."
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My wife is getting baptized on the 19th!
by Check_Your_Premises inmy wife is getting baptized on the 19th.. i wrote her a letter today.
basically i asked her why she isn't coming to me to find out my concerns.
i am the person who has the most invested in her.
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Don't get me wrong. I like how effective the whole, "tip off the elders" bit. But wouldn't everyone be very suspicous of this. I would have to make it a believable offense, and provide someone other than myself a motive for doing it.
I wish I had some real dirt, but she is squeaky clean.
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My wife is getting baptized on the 19th!
by Check_Your_Premises inmy wife is getting baptized on the 19th.. i wrote her a letter today.
basically i asked her why she isn't coming to me to find out my concerns.
i am the person who has the most invested in her.
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Calamity,
Yeah I have started to get her non-jw family involved. Her brother said he felt bad, like he was going behind her back. I told him, don't, cuz believe me they go behind mine to undermine everything I do in my family.
MDP
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My wife is getting baptized on the 19th!
by Check_Your_Premises inmy wife is getting baptized on the 19th.. i wrote her a letter today.
basically i asked her why she isn't coming to me to find out my concerns.
i am the person who has the most invested in her.
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That is rough man. I do hate the way I feel like they are always there when I am at work, talking me down, and minimizing the things I say.
I couldn't imagine the feeling of helplessness you must have had being on a float!
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My wife is getting baptized on the 19th!
by Check_Your_Premises inmy wife is getting baptized on the 19th.. i wrote her a letter today.
basically i asked her why she isn't coming to me to find out my concerns.
i am the person who has the most invested in her.
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"spiritual endangerment"
How do I qualify for that? What would I have to do for her to claim that?
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My wife is getting baptized on the 19th!
by Check_Your_Premises inmy wife is getting baptized on the 19th.. i wrote her a letter today.
basically i asked her why she isn't coming to me to find out my concerns.
i am the person who has the most invested in her.
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She will be pressured to either get you to join her cult, or divorce you.
I have heard that from a few people, but the vast majority have told me that the only way she can divorce me is if I commit adultery. So how is she going to divorce me.
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My wife is getting baptized on the 19th!
by Check_Your_Premises inmy wife is getting baptized on the 19th.. i wrote her a letter today.
basically i asked her why she isn't coming to me to find out my concerns.
i am the person who has the most invested in her.
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They won't have time to investigate but they will have to tell her that she's got to wait while they "check it out" (trust me this happened to me and I had to wait!)
That is really interesting. I am not sure if your exact idea would be best, but what other ways could I get the elders to want to "wait"?