Ok Clay, you want to know how to get her out.
As everyone else here has told you, you have better things to do with your time.
I am an unbeleiving mate. I have children with my wife. I don't have any choice. You are a young man. You are full of idealistic ideas. You still haven't learned that there isn't much point to trying to change people. You still haven't learned that you don't have a lot of time here, and you shouldn't waste it on futile efforts. It's ok. We all have been there.
But if you really are interested in doing this, and you aren't like all the other guys just like you we have seen come with all this enthusiasm, and then go after a few weeks of mind boggling interaction with a jw robot, then I will talk to you about it. Sorry dude but you are a cliche.
Myself and other ubm's (again we are married, we have no choice) are using a book by Steven Hassan called Releasing the Bonds. It is a "how to get your loved one out of a cult" manual.
Don't do anything else until you get this book and read it.
When you talk to her, talk about baseball, the weather, whatever. Don't talk religion!
There was a guy here about a month ago named shawn. Look up his name. Read his posts. He lived on this site. He was basically your twin brother. He didn't listen to anyone here, and ended up making a bunch of dumb, rookie mistakes, and chasing away his jw love interest. Now she won't even talk to the guy.
The reason I am telling you to read this book is because you don't know what you are doing. Your little love interest does not have to talk to you. If you start talking bad about her religion she will stop talking to you. We ubm's have spouses who are stuck with us. My wife has to take my ass to court and get a full time job if she wants to leave me! We can make mistakes. You don't have that luxury.
In closing, trust me. You seriously have better things to do. She can't be that hot!
A guy told me something once.
Take a look at who you think is the most beautiful woman in the world.
Somewhere there is a guy who is totally sick of her crap.
Don't be that guy.
