For an organization that claims that the way they do things should be an example to the world on how to run things they are failing miserably.
In my old KH we had an elders son that tried to get in his babysitters (niece of another elder) window at her house. Some people in the congo
where priveledge to know about this but not me or my daughter, (who was the same age as the babysitter) He started hanging out at the pool
at the apt we lived in...and got out of my daughter her cell number. I mean hell, she thought of him as a "brother" not as a man, he was older, not Disfellowshipped, she was a minor.
He called her and wanted her to meet him at a bar. She told me immediately. Instead of the elders son being at fault, she was for giving him her
phone number....and this was when we found out about the babysitter incident. The guy is a predator, I don't give a rats ass about protecting his
privacy or how damn sorry he was/is....he can't be trusted and his father should not be in a position to protect his ass.
The guy is a PREDATOR. Protect the children.
Edited to add: He got her phone number saying he might need her to babysit.