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From the ? you posed it seems to me you already have the answer but are not satisfied with it. The bible gives us clear instructions on how to deal with oneanother 2Timothy 3:16,17 "All scripture is inspired of God and beneficial for teaching, for reproving, for setting things STRAIGHT, for disciplining in righteousness, that the man of God may be fully competent, completely equipped for every good work". Since Jehovah created us and has been observing mankind since our beginning, He has seen it all dont you think? God has seen what works and what does not work for us. So His councel and direction for us would be the very best for us to follow, even though at times it may be difficult for us. In the long run however if we apply we will benefit in many ways. The bible says at Isaiah 48:17,18 " This is what your repurchaser has said, the Holy One of Isreal. I Jehovah am your God, the One teaching you to BENEFIT yourself, the One causing you to tread in the way in which you should walk. O if only you would actually pay attention to my commandment! Then your peace would would become just like a river and your righteousness would become like the waves of the sea. Imagine having peace like a river! Rivers tend to be endless and deeper than we can see. Thats how are peace will be. Endless and deep within ourselves, Thats true peace. That is why we are instructed to forgive oneanother Because when we hold on to resentment and hurt feelings, it can rob us of peace. It can even have an effect on our health!