PIONEER SCHMIONEER:
I was not raised a Witness either. I’m so grateful I had a fairly normal upbringing.
I came into the religion already with a job. Like you hinted at, they did not like this. I assume you are a man (sorry if I’m wrong).. But, I’m a woman so maybe I was viewed worse. Whatever the case, their bad attitude towards me made it much easier to ‘Fade’.. As I was already in the ‘world’, I didn’t have to learn to navigate my way around. I didn’t have to learn anything new. I just lost time - and that was bad enough.. I did have to ‘unlearn’ certain teachings and thinking habits and get away from the judgmental personalities there and reconnect with good people from my past. So Glad I got out.👍🏻
You sound like you have pity for people still there, and maybe you’re a better person than I am. You also have a good philosophy about life. Best regards.