"Do not look for excuses to associate with a disfellowshipped family member, for example, through e-mail.
This doesn't look right. Email wouldn't be an excuse, but a "way" to associate with a disfellowshipped family member, right??
An excuse might be, "well, with Sandy, I was checking up on them". Or, "I love them, and with the new baby, I just had to email them!"
I'm wierd, I know..