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  JWD soundtrack

  by Bas in

  1. social
  2. entertainment

  ok, here it goes, everybody can put up one song for the official jwd soundtrack, mine:.

  "fu-gee-la" by the fugees.

  [(lauryn) repeat chorus 2x:].

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  i can see clearly now
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  mmnnnnn ... who makes you just "melt"

  by Simon in

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  for an oldie i'd pick audrey hepburn singing moon river ... mmnnnn, i never get tired of that.. currently i'm listening to norah jones an aweful lot.

  she is very easy on the ears and is my "audible-heaven" right now.. so who's voice makes you 'melt' ?

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  scotsman...what are you on the kinsey scale..
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  I hate living with effing psycho parents

  by tsunami_rid3r in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i have a mom who would rather me not go to college, keep me locked up in the house, and just serve jehovah.

  i have a weak dad, instead of her being subjected to him, he's subjected to her.

  he's on my side on most of the part but he's just weak on setting her straight.

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  the elders said my hair is going out of style

  like ..they would know
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  Seven Year Itch!

  by Crumpet in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  well today is my 7th aniversary with my boyfriend.. we met in a nightclub and are still together!

  the moral being you can find succulent meat in a "meat market", as long as you, maybe, have no morals!.

  so when i woke up this morning, sun streaming through the windows, daughter padding about quietly (children can never be quiet - or maybe our ears just go to high alert when kids are in the house) downstairs, i began scratching at myself madly until my boyfriend woke up.

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  happy anni....crumpet

  little toe....feelin you, man
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  My father will lose his privileges if he attends my sister's wedding

  by Goldminer in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my sister is planning on getting married within the next few months.her jw husband committed adultery and left her when their son was 7 weeks old.after getting a scriptural divorce she began a friendship with a "worldly" man and now this friendship has grown to a soon-to-be marriage.

  this man studied with the jw's for a while but could see right through them found too many of their teachings didn't make sense so he stopped studying.he's made his stand with my sister and told her she can still attend meetings if she wants to.he's also a good worker and seems to really love the kids.he's not perfect but no worse than many jw husbands.

  anyways,the elders pulled my dad aside on tuesday night and told him he could(could????!@#*?

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  im sorry you are missing the point and getting angry isnt helping...what we want is a solution that makes everyone a winner

  the issue here is not one of 'privileges' per se...it is a question of authority..who has the right to make the decision.The elders think they have that right.They do not.But to tell someone who thinks they have the right to do something, because they have the authority to execute it, that they do not in fact have that right is to invite further problems..the father is probably not going to stop attending meetings fs etc or become 'apostate' if he doesnt attend the wedding in which case the privileges are something he values and therefore as the wedding is one day and the privileges are ongoing then this will be a consideration.So what he needs to do is reason with the elders and get them to come to the conclusion that he in fact should go and get them to recommend this..Explain to them that he has researched the subject and this is what the wts say...see below...tell them that he wants to keep the channel to his daughter open should anything go wrong (heaven forbid) in the future...the elders do not have any other info beyond what is below..but do it enquiringly not confrontationally

  But what about attending weddings of neighbors, worldly fellow workers, or distant relatives and acquaintances? Each Christian must personally decide on this. It is good to bear in mind that our time is precious, since we need time for our ministry, personal study, and other family and congregational pursuits. (Ephesians 5:15, 16) On weekends, we have meetings and field service that we do not want to miss. (Hebrews 10:24, 25) The timing of many weddings conflicts with assemblies or special service efforts linked to the Lord?s Evening Meal. We should not permit ourselves to become distracted from making the same special efforts that our brothers around the world are making to attend the Lord?s Evening Meal. Before coming to a knowledge of the truth, we spent much time with worldly people, perhaps in circumstances that dishonored God. (1 Peter 4:3, 4) Now our priorities are different. It is always possible to wish a worldly couple well by sending a card or dropping in for a brief visit on another day. Some have used such occasions to give a witness, sharing some scriptures that are fitting for newlyweds.w97 15apr p26

  *** w74 12/15 pp. 766-767 Questions from Readers ***

  Questions from Readers

  ? What is the view of Jehovah?s witnesses toward attending the wedding of a worldly acquaintance or relative?In the case of minors who contemplate attending, the final decision rests with the parents. Otherwise it is a matter for personal decision, with each Christian being willing to bear his own responsibility. However, there are Scriptural principles and a wide variety of circumstances that should be considered.

  The wedding ceremony may be conducted in a religious building and by a clergyman. This would make it quite different from a purely civil ceremony. A true Christian could not conscientiously join or participate in any prayers or religious exercises that he knew to be contrary to Bible teaching. Nor is he interested to see how close he can come to apostate acts without overstepping the line. He is under obligation to heed the Scriptural command: "Do not become unevenly yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship do righteousness and lawlessness have? . . . Or what portion does a faithful person have with an unbeliever? . . . ?Therefore get out from among them, and separate yourselves,? says Jehovah, ?and quit touching the unclean thing.?"?2 Cor. 6:14-17.

  Understandably, one invited to attend a wedding of worldly relatives and acquaintances may at times be faced with quite a problem. For example, the invitation may have been extended to a Christian wife and her unbelieving husband. He may think that both of them should be present for the wedding. Yet she may be troubled about it. She may reason that, if she were to attend a church wedding, the emotional pressure of the circumstances could cause her to do something wrong. On the other hand, she might conclude that, out of regard for her husband?s wishes, she could go with him merely as a respectful observer, but being determined not to share in any religious acts.

  Regardless of how a wife might view the matter, it would be to her advantage to explain her position to her husband. If, on the basis of her explanation, he comes to the conclusion that his wife?s presence may possibly give rise to a situation unpleasant to him, he may prefer to go alone. Or, he may still want her to go with him, but as a quiet observer, in which case she will have to decide whether to go.

  Something that deserves consideration is the effect that attending a wedding in a religious building might have on fellow believers. Could it injure the conscience of some? Might their resistance to engaging in actual idolatrous acts be weakened by this action of yours? A Bible principle that comes into the picture is: "Make sure of the more important things, so that you may be flawless and not be stumbling others up to the day of Christ."?Phil. 1:10; see also 1 Corinthians 8:9-13.

  At times an invitation to a wedding may include being actively involved as a member of the bridal party. What if this required participation in certain religious acts? Manifestly one desiring to be pleasing to God could not share in acts of false religion; the person must act in harmony with his Word. But a Christian could explain just how he feels and point out that in no way does he want to mar the joy of the wedding day by being responsible for what might prove to be an embarrassing situation.

  In matters of this nature, Christians must carefully weigh all the factors involved. Under certain circumstances they may conclude that no difficulties would arise if they were to attend as quiet observers. On the other hand, the circumstances may be such that a Christian may reason that likely injury to his conscience or that of others by attending such worldly wedding outweighs the possible benefits of attending. Whatever the situation, the Christian should make sure that his decision will not interfere with his preserving a good conscience before God and men.

  Questions From Readers

  Would it be advisable for a true Christian to attend a funeral or a wedding in a church?Our taking part in any form of false religion is displeasing to Jehovah and must be avoided. (2 Corinthians 6:14-17; Revelation 18:4) A church funeral is a religious service that likely involves a sermon advocating such unscriptural ideas as the immortality of the soul and a heavenly reward for all good people. It may also include such practices as making the sign of the cross and joining in prayer with the priest or minister. Prayers and other religious exercises contrary to Bible teaching may also be a part of a religious wedding ceremony held in a church or elsewhere. Being in a group where everyone else is engaging in a false religious act, a Christian may find it difficult to resist the pressure to join in. How unwise to expose oneself to such pressure!

  What if a Christian feels obligated to attend a funeral or a wedding held in a church? An unbelieving husband, for example, may urge his Christian wife to be with him on such an occasion. Could she join him as a quiet observer? Out of regard for her husband?s wishes, the wife may decide to go with him, being determined not to share in any religious ceremonies. On the other hand, she may decide not to go, reasoning that the emotional pressure of the circumstances could prove to be too much for her, perhaps causing her to compromise godly principles. The decision would be hers to make. She definitely would want to be settled in her heart, having a clean conscience.?1 Timothy 1:19.

  In any case, it would be to her advantage to explain to her husband that she could not conscientiously share in any religious ceremonies or join in the singing of hymns or bow her head when prayer is offered. On the basis of her explanation, he may conclude that his wife?s presence could give rise to a situation that might be unpleasant to him. He may choose to go alone out of love for his wife, respect for her beliefs, or a desire to avoid any embarrassment. But if he insists that she go with him, she might go as a mere observer.

  Not to be overlooked is the effect our attending a service in a religious building might have on fellow believers. Could it injure the conscience of some? Might their resistance to avoid engaging in idolatry be weakened? "Make sure of the more important things," admonishes the apostle Paul, "so that you may be flawless and not be stumbling others up to the day of Christ."?Philippians 1:10.

  If the occasion involves a close fleshly relative, there may be additional family pressures. In any case, a Christian must carefully weigh all the factors involved. Under certain circumstances he or she may conclude that no difficulties would arise from attending a church funeral or wedding as an observer. However, the circumstances may be such that by attending, the likely injury to one?s own conscience or to that of others would outweigh the possible benefits of being present. Whatever the situation, the Christian should make sure that the decision will not interfere with his preserving a good conscience before God and men.wt 02 15may p28
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  NOT ALLOWED TO RAPE....BUT

  by tijkmo in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  when i was df i decided to use the time wisely and read the insight books which is how i came across this

  the armies of pagan nations often raped the women of conquered cities, but not so the victorious soldiers of israel.

  nor were they permitted for a month to marry a captive woman.

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  i get that even in this day and age a victorious army will rape the women and then just leave them endeavouring to impregnate them so that children born will be of the winning armies race and certainly the mosaic law condemned the jewish soldiers from doing that...but i had to come up with that line of reasoning to satisfy myself cos all the wts does is emphasize the so-called merciful action without explaining the other verses...i never noticed this before and it is beginning to annoy me more and more
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  GUNS N ROSES NOVEMBER RAIN

  by tijkmo in

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  nuff said

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  pd........its not a major talking point....its a minor talking point...ill do better next time

  dh.....been lmao @ your posts for past hour
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  mmnnnnn ... who makes you just "melt"

  by Simon in

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  for an oldie i'd pick audrey hepburn singing moon river ... mmnnnn, i never get tired of that.. currently i'm listening to norah jones an aweful lot.

  she is very easy on the ears and is my "audible-heaven" right now.. so who's voice makes you 'melt' ?

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  these tears ive cried- ive cried a thousand oceans.....

  .....and i would cry a thousand more- if thats what it takes

  to sail you home sail you home s-a-il sail you home

  tori........be my wife
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  Prayers at mealtime!!?

  by Frog in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  who still find it strange years on to dive straight into your mail meal without 'giving thanks'?

  i say main meal, because dad's prayers were always considerably lengthy before a main meal, and are an institution in every jw household.

  even now after a few years i'm just about ready to tuck in when i find myself saying a simple thanks under my breath.

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  i had this discussion with my ma.....i dont feel inclined to thank god for anything.......she said but hes responsible for the air you breath and the food you eat etc..and i said i always thank those who are personally responsible for providing me with something like i thank you for lunch 2day..but this thanking by extention means that i also have the right to blame him for the way his org treated me even though you keep saying it wasnt god it was imperfect elders....to me its like a child who gets regularly battered by his father, however "justifiably", being reluctant to thank him for working to put food on the table...so no i dont pray at mealtimes by myself......but if im asked to pray on someone elses meal then i dont make a fuss.....'my hypocrite?
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  Name Things You Can Get Counseled,Reproved or Disfellowshipped For

  by minimus in

  1. jw
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  since the jw religion is sooooo restrictive, it is good to think about just how wacky this cult is.....for example, you can get counseled for buying a 2 door car as opposed to a "pioneer" car (4 door).

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  trdmf..@kates donuts