She has something called, corticobasildegeneration. Yeah I know what a name! Its a disease that shrinks the brain, and there is no cure for it! I see her rapidly going downhill. She still lives on her own, but yet I dont think she should. I want her to move in with me, but there is no room for her. I have checked into places, but they dont allow smoking or pets, which she does or has both! I wont put her in a home, she is not ready for that yet, so what do I do? She was over tonight, and was flicking the ashes off her lighter, instead of her cig! 5 times she put her lighter in the ashtray, and one time her drink! I just dont know what to do anymore. I took her to the bar, cause thats what she wanted to do. She had a half of a drink, and just couldnt function at all! She couldnt open her purse, light a cig, or even hang on to it, she kept dropping it on the floor! What should I do?