hey guys!
i don't know if this has been discussed before.
if it has, just give me 20 lashes with a wet noodle.
Christmas!!!!!! I absolutely love Christmas.
Totally!!! i had my first christmas at my boyfriends house. (my jw mom was out of town) i was so overcome i started crying!!!! we had been dating for barely a month and this was my first time meeting all his friends. they were all so warm and they all gave me presents......it was the best night of my life!!! 'course....my baby boy gave me a special present when everyone left....
i can't wait till my birthday...MAY 22!!!! WOO-HOOOO!!!!
luv, kitty
a friend of mine who is disfellowshipped wonders whether it is wtbts policy to let him have the magazines still and frankly, i can't remember.
i told him that i believe it is their policy not to let him have the mags, but i'm not actually that sure.
any ideas you clever people?
He could get someone to pose as a person interested in getting the magazines but only through the mail.
they actually quit doing mail subscriptions a couple of years ago. probably around '98. they said the postage was cutting into their budget. they also gave some lamo comment about how we could show our faithfulness to JDub by being responsible enough to get the magazines on a regular basis. **gag** luv, kitty
hey guys!
i don't know if this has been discussed before.
if it has, just give me 20 lashes with a wet noodle.
I grew a brain and went to college
u go jeannie!!!!
luv, kitty
a friend of mine who is disfellowshipped wonders whether it is wtbts policy to let him have the magazines still and frankly, i can't remember.
i told him that i believe it is their policy not to let him have the mags, but i'm not actually that sure.
any ideas you clever people?
when i got dsf'd, an elder told my mom that i could go to the literature counter and get magazines. i chose not to because....
1. i haven't read them since i was like 6.
2. i sure as hell didn't appreciate the how dare you stay in the kh after the meeting and not run out to the parking lot in disgrace looks.
so yes....he can still get magameans. (why the heck won't my red go off....)
luv, kitty
hey guys!
i don't know if this has been discussed before.
if it has, just give me 20 lashes with a wet noodle.
btw.....in reference to u/d....i was in the troof for 19 years....i never understood how the heck they justified telling us what we could and could not do in the privacy of our own bedrooms with those we love (or love for that night ) could someone please elaborate.....
luv, kitty
hey guys!
i don't know if this has been discussed before.
if it has, just give me 20 lashes with a wet noodle.
hey guys! i don't know if this has been discussed before. if it has, just give me 20 lashes with a wet noodle.
what is the first so called wordly thing you did when you decided the troof was baloney? the night my mom kicked me out, i went and bought a carton of camel lights and went to my boyfriends house where i now live. the next day i went and got a tattoo of a pagan symbol.
http://www.yogabound.com/images/ohm_symbol.gif <----u can see it there, although mine is cooler. i also got my belly button pierced and went and bought a bunch of kewl fairy shirts. i love fairies!!!!
just curious to see what u guys did.
luv, kitty
born into it 1985
baptized 1999
dsf'd #1 2003
rein 2004 (only 6 months later)
dsf'd #2 2004 (9 months after being rein.)
and like they say...Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!
luv, kitty
so me and my boyfriend were discussing this last night and i wanted to get y'alls opinion.
when the org crumbles and falls how do you see it happening?
i like this idea: the fbi raids bethel, finds a bunch of illegal stuff (money laundering, list of known and active pedophiles, etc.
so me and my boyfriend were discussing this last night and i wanted to get y'alls opinion. when the org crumbles and falls how do you see it happening? i like this idea: the FBI raids bethel, finds a bunch of illegal stuff (money laundering, list of known and active pedophiles, etc.) and we all here about it on CNN. so then they'll have a special meeting to which all apostates and dsf'd ones are warmly invited. they make the announcement that they were wrong and apologize personally to each and every one of us for the shunning and emotional distress. then we all go out to eat with our family and friends that have shunned us out of sheer fear. and we get to sit in the smoking section.
luv, kitty
from reading this site i've learned that jws frown up buying used clothing etc.
from second hand stores because of possible 'demonization.
' my neighbors are jw and i notice that they have fairly frequent garage sales.
my mother's best friend in one of my old cong.'s actually owns and manages a resale shop. she's been doing this for as long as i can remember, and she's still a pioneer in good standing.
although she DOES bring in some dough, and she is known to be a generous donation giver on a daily basis....
but surely that's just coincedental.
do you feel better?
act better?
think more positively?
Definitely
I was in and out of therapist from the time i was 13 until i finally said....
i've actually lost weight and been able to carry on successful relationships. i was telling my boyfriend last night how the jdubz like to tell horror stories of people who left the organization and their life went totally downhill.
riiiiiiight.....
so we laughed and had another beer and smoked a cigarette.
