I spent 30yrs of my life as a JW - was born into it, married one too at the very young age of 20. Pioneered for 3yrs. Fortunately the light got brighter and about 4yrs ago we both quit. Simply fading into the background. We are currently the happiest we have ever been in all aspects of our lives. We feel free and empowered, even our relationship has improved heapes. No more pretending, we are honest and open with each other, and have finally learned not be afraid to communicate and voice our opinions - as everyone on this forum probably know, as a JW you simply don't give voice to your opinions, and you never, never question anything coming from them. Liberty is wonderful!