I am shunned by all JW family and friends. Fortunately some have also left so I do have some contact with my past.
It is actually quite saddening how so many can be hurt by teachings which are supposed to be used for good.What makes you think that. The New Testament is political, bringing the out of date Old Testament in line with more enlightened Greek philosophy. Jesus spoke of bringing enmity between family. Paul speaks of the destructive judgement of God on unbelievers. Modern day interpretation tries to downplay the evil of the Bible, but if you go back and read it cover to cover for what it really says you will find it very different to what you have been raised to believe it says, through the concentration of a few favourite verses.