Reading your life stories made me very sad but all of you should be proud of yourselves for coming through that terrible time in your life...Most people have no idea what others have been through. I, too, have had a terrible ex in my past and someday may have the courage to talk about it here. Right now I feel a bond with all of you and your sufferings. and as jgnat said " a life well led is the best revenge"
Posts by arwen
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21Worst experiences with ex spouses
by greendawn inwhat were some of the worst experiences you had with ex spouses or ex boyfriends/girlfriends?
one of my ex girlfriends just left me suddenly without ever saying anything in advance and i never saw her again for a long time and that happened by coincidence.
her disappearence was totally unexpected.
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arwen
I can't look at anything to do with Lord Of The Rings without thinking of you.Legolas..and of course I had to buy it...We really should try and have a get together in the summer with whoever can make it by hook or by crook or ferry or bridge to the Island...
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arwen
You are going to have to come over to PEI, Dams...I almost got to meet you once..the time I met Kwin and family...I sure have grown alot mentally since then.. Miss you too Legolas...I got you a present the other day that I am sure you will love..
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arwen
Reading the board and feeling good about where we are in life on a Saturday night in 2006...being with friends who understand where we are coming from and what we have been thru makes me thankful...and I am also happy that I am not busy underlining for the WT Sunday morning...
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arwen
so are you guys still up at this hour??/ All those pictures of home made me homesick!!!
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Create a New Name for Yourself!
by Scully inhere is your dose of humour for this afternoon:.
a. follow the instructions to find your new name.. .
b. once you have your new name, post it so we can all see it.
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arwen
dipsy batty butt?????
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Grrrrrr am I getting fed up!!!!!!!!!
by ButtLight indo you have a relationship with a mixed family?
like kids from other marraiges?
and as far as us going to eat, i think i will fend for myself tonight!!!!!
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arwen
Don't let the children ruin the relationship you have with one another. Some day all those kids will be out of the house and there will just be the two of you. I know it is very difficult and as mothers we are tigers when it comes to our kids..We can be very defensive. Sometimes the kids do things just to get things going too. I have seen it happen. If you could sit down and make up the rules for the family and then stay united on the conquences of their actions whether good or bad the kids might straighten up and there would not be so much stress for both of you.
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(Fluff) Confession: I'm obsessed with this board
by MsMcDucket ini'm trying to figure out how long that i will be obsessed with this board.
i could spend 24/7 on here.
i think that's why i don't clean up the house as much.
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arwen
Thanks Juni for the beautiful flowers. I always take time to smell the roses now!! Didn't have time before with so much coming and going and trying to be everything to everybody and letting people use me to their advantage with no thanks...It is nice to get a bouquet of flowers just for being me....
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Happy St.Patrick's Day!
by Legolas inhappy st. patrick's day everyone!
now don't you all get too drunk tonight on green beer!
ps...this is the only day i can use the st.patty's day emoticons..lol
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arwen
and a Happy St Patrick's Day to you too...my fair colleen...as they say in Ireland..this is a first for us eh Legolas??
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(Fluff) Confession: I'm obsessed with this board
by MsMcDucket ini'm trying to figure out how long that i will be obsessed with this board.
i could spend 24/7 on here.
i think that's why i don't clean up the house as much.
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arwen
I am obsessed also with this board..I rarely ever post as I am shy about it but I am here every day right along with you all. I have been through every emotion possible with this board. The people here are great and have encouraged me so much. Wherever we are in our stage of leaving we know there are other going through the same thing. We all learn from each other. We keep each other sane. No one else can imagine what we have been through or why we stayed. I am always happy when I see new ones come to this board. It is here we can find our peace of mind. I will try to post more.