I didn't fade.
I explained to the two couples that we were close to that I didn't believe a word of it anymore, after my research, and that our relationship would no longer be able to continue, due to the fact that they would continue being Witnesses and I wouldn't.
I suppose I was the one to cut them off and out of my life.
The one couple suggested I was suffering from depression and that was the last we had to do with them.
The other couple said they wouldn't judge us but I knew it wouldn't work.
That was about 9 years ago.
I feel honest about myself.
I saw them both at a funeral recently at the Kingdom Hall and we all chatted and laughed as normal.
Probably it could be said my friendship was just as conditional as theirs.
My friendship was based on them being honest and principled.
When I told my parents that I was leaving I explained to them that all my former friendships with Witnesses would have to end.
My parents said ''don't be silly'', but I told them I wouldn't respect them if they did carry on with me, as they would be going against the very belief system that they allegedly followed.
To be honest with myself, then 'Yes' I did feel I owed an explanation to my friends to explain why I was no longer going to continue with them.