I don't think there is a perfect man or woman.
I personally find tall men ( well taller than me I'm 5' 6") who are smart very attractive.I love blue eyes.I have a thing lately for nerdy geeky type guys.I like sensitive caring guys.I like guys who are affectionate and cuddly.I don't like skinny guys.I like guys who like animals because I have them.
Most of all I like a guy who makes me laugh.For me it more about personality then the way a guy looks.If I dig his personality and he makes me laugh I done for.