I'm neither, but I understand. I have to have blood drawn regularly for tests, and I have tiny veins. The nurses and phlebotomists complain about it all the time, and it's no picnic for me either. I'd love to have veins you could push a garden hose into!
My husband has huge muscular-looking arms; but his veins or deep and skinny. I, always, tell the nurses and phlebotomists that he's a hard stick. Sometimes, they'll let me stick him or they'll call the IV Team. The IV Team uses a doppler. He gets pretty irritable after the second stick with no results!