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  Walking through Wal-Mart/Jehoba told me

  by colorado5591 in

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  i was walking through wal-mart this eve, minding my own, purchasing things for the club.. suddenly, from the clothing racks a man jumps in front of me!

  bloody hell!

  there was nowhere to run.

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  I've got some questions for Jehoba Gawd. Especially about "Da Truff".

  Why did he let satan take them there smurfs and use those little cuttie pies as demons? Ya know, them there power rods of holy spirit the elders said so.

  And I like listening to all that worldly music. Why can't I bring it into "DA nu Syztim"? We need to get our groove on in paradise too you know.

  I get that once in a blue from a guy who lives in my building. Oddly he has an accent like the guy you saw. He tried a few times to convert me. Not happening!

  BTW Colorado, you are georgeous. I had to just say that. Whew...now that i've got that off my chest...

  Dez
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  they might be dubs! please read and give your opinion!

  by kittyeatzjdubs in

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  seriously...i think some dubs are living across the street from me and matt.

  i was talking to him about it last night and he was like, ''how the hell could you even know unless the told you?

  1. tuesday evening i went to get something out of my car and i notice the mother and daughter walking out of the house.

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  I suggest handing them a copy of Franz books as a christmas present

  Dez
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  My sister Robin RIP Mar. 26, 1963 - Nov. 7, 2005

  by Lady Lee in

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  i just got some news and am still shaking.

  my sister died today.

  i hardly knew her .

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  I cried when I read that.

  I hope you feel better soon. My thoughts are with you.

  Desi
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  You know, were all still a percentage Jehovah's Witness. Like it, or not!

  by free2beme in

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  i know a lot of people we say, i am 100% out, and speak of all the things they disagree with.

  yet i don't think that is the case, we are what the accumulation of our days have brought us too and no matter how hard you try, i know you all have witness in you.

  it might be as simple as a thought when we do something normal, with some stray conscience struggle with doing something we were told was wrong for so many years.

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  dammit, i hate the fact that im still partly one of them... i still think its weird for a guy and a girl who arent related or married to be alone together!!! ha ha, kinda sad eh>

  I with you there infamousone. Still gets to me sometimes too. It always stays with us to some degree but the more you question their silly thinking the more it tones down.

  Prophecor said

  I adapt into the community around me, even though I know I don't fit in or belong

  I feel the same. Many of us feel different. And at the same time some of the most valuable things in life are those that are unique and a bit different fron the rest.

  On another note I went to a meetup of ex-jw's this weekend. I left around 4pm Saturday. I didn't get back till 6:30am Sunday morning! We went to bars, a restaurant, and in the end it was 2 of us about to go home at 2am when ge got a phone call for a party in the city. The longest night out i've had in ages. Who ever said ex-jw's don't know how to party?

  Dez
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  Can someone help me decide what to do?

  by Kaylen in

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  can someone give me some feedback on what they would do in this situation:.

  last weekend my best friends husband told me that three years ago he caught (and spied on for about half an hour) my husband and my very best friend "getting hot and heavy" (his words) in our spa and that he watched them because "he found it hot".

  the three of them decided that they would not tell me and kept it a secret for the last three years until he told me (because he was drunk at the time).

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  That's a rough situation. I think you shouldn't be influenced by anybody in terms of what you should do. What's right for one person is wrong for the next. If it were me I would confront your friend one on one. I agree that thinking about it over and over in your head will not be productive (been there, done that).

  As far as forgiveness goes, I don't think anyone can tell you if you should or shouldn't forgive. The answer varies from person to person. Find out more. You would probably find out the most from the one that told you the truth in the first place. My guess is that you will feel like your in a better position to judge the situation and those involved after you know it all. I hate to say it but in the end you may need to do the same thing back before you'll feel you can move on. I'm not saying you should. I just know that some people only get closure by "balancing the tables". I don't want to influence you there though. I don't know anything about you to say what would put you at peace with the situation.

  And what's up with this freak getting turned on by all this?
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  Welcome Talina

  by Cellist in

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  hello talina, welcome to jwd.. cellist

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  Welcome to the group Talina. What's your escapre story?

  Desi
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  ITs legolas's bday soon! wish her a good one, ps shes 29 haha not

  by lucifer in

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  just to let yahs all know ..legolas is bday is on tuesday, so everyone say hello an wish her a good one, try to guess her age to it'd be funny, (i'm not sure if she put it in her profile or not?

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  Happy early b-day Legolas. We'll give you the full birthday post Teusday.

  D.
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  New to the board... would like to share my experiences.. (sorry for length)

  by oxygen8 in

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  hey all!

  i came upon this board as i was trying to find some social doctrine answers regarding jehovah's witnesses.

  i've been looking over this board and feel i've found a new home.

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  Welcome Katie. Enjoy your stay here.
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  Hi I am new here!!!!!

  by lucifer in

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  my mom told me about this site im embarrassed to tell yahs who she is haha,kidding shes legolas, lets see i left the "truth" aka the lie in june, although we stopped going a year ago, i just want to see if i can learn more about the lies in the cult because my old best friend works with me but she is a jw and she acts like i dont exist, i want to tell her somthing thats a real shocker and maybe shell come to her senses, any ideas??!

  i just want to say hi to jordan....so hi!!!!

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  Welcome Desiree. My name is Desi too (but not Desiree, lol).

  You should play the 3 word game with us sometime. Your mother and I jump in that one alot (hey Legolas :-)).

  Desi
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  Hey.... I am a.....

  by Legolas in

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  lmao...i don't know what it is going to say...but i think i will be something!

  so do all your congrats!!!!

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  dezpbem

  CONGRATS!!!!!

  I'm leaving for the night so I wish you all a great time tonight.

  Hail new emperor!

  Dez