Having friends of the opposite sex can also be platonic. I have had several extremely close friends for decades without any involvement.
That is why I have held off for as long as I have. Because if I am wrong, it is still going to add an awkward dimension to his relationship with her. And if I'm right, things will change drastically.
chamfer
Thanks for the replys so far. It just bothers me because "I" was the one that was doubting the JWs first and did my research and approached him with it and helped him to think for himself.
It seems like more of a slap in the face that way I guess. I know he was mad about my secretiveness when I was researching the society, and my bad attitude for a few years before I really started researching. He thought I was mad at him and maybe even cheating on him. I wasn't. I was just reading the bible and going to the library alot.
If he feels like he deserves to have this new friend after the scare I put him through with my JW research, I'm not sure that is a fair trade is it? Any tips on how I can approach him about the IMs, emails, and phone logs without seeming like a psycho?
chamfer
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