I want to thank all of you for your replies. Reading them I was on an emotional rollercoaster. Man I wish someoone would create a great documentary on this so called religion and expose them for what they really are! their robbing me of my family. I fear that we will not be together like I wish. Again thanks guys.
Dondi
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My Family or Thiers?
by Dondi ini am new to this site and am seeking a little advice from some of your more seasoned veterans.
i met my girlfriend about 7 years ago, when we met we fell in love and 2 years later had a baby and we moved in together.
i brought with me 2 children from a previous marriage and she had one from a previous as well.
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My Family or Thiers?
by Dondi ini am new to this site and am seeking a little advice from some of your more seasoned veterans.
i met my girlfriend about 7 years ago, when we met we fell in love and 2 years later had a baby and we moved in together.
i brought with me 2 children from a previous marriage and she had one from a previous as well.
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Dondi
I am new to this site and am seeking a little advice from some of your more seasoned veterans. I met my girlfriend about 7 years ago, when we met we fell in love and 2 years later had a baby and we moved in together. I brought with me 2 children from a previous marriage and she had one from a previous as well. While I knew her for the first two yrs. she hinted that she was once a JW and her mother as well. Didnt think much of it because she never went to the hall or her son either. Soon after a JW rep started to show up while I was at work and give her child classes in my house. I figured Id leave it alone I knew nothing. Soon after she began to take "studies" as well. About a yr after we argued, I moved out and got my own Apt. 3 months later we talked and started to see each other again. All of a sudden she is seriously into the religion. I loved her so much I went to the hall with her twice but as they preached I just felt some things they were saying were odd so I began to research the background of the "religion". Needless to say I found many inconsistancies and things I didnt like. When I brought it to her attention, the fights began. I truly Love her and wish we can agree on researching the background together but she is close minded, she doesnt want to know who originally translated their NWT, she doesnt want to know of all the Watchtower contraversial statements of the past, the false prophecies or the fact that God would have left his people with out the "true" religion untill the late 1800's. I want to be with her and have a family but it is very difficult around holidays, birthdays, and even the fact that she thinks we cant be intimate until were married even though we have a child together( considering all the arguements marriage is a difficult thing) She doest want to reason or research at all. What do I do? Last week she had one day off of work, she had six hours of freedom for our family to spend some quality time 4 went to studies and the hall and 2 went to me and the family. please help.