Hey guys, i'll try respond to you all in one go alright?
Basically we are looking to move out from the home we are in with Megans Mum asap - looking for alternatives all the time and i cant wait until something does come up, its driving me nuts living with her anyway nevermind with this on top and its not doing megan any good.
Megans Mum is the first person Megan should be able to depend on and as you've all said, she's been the first to let Megan down in a huge way. Its sad when parents choose someone else over their children, in this case victim over the other child. At least in this case a sound person would take no risks until they know who is telling the truth.
Counselling will eventually be on the cards for Megan but not yet, i think she's just starting to get it out of her system and just finished the early process of 'sharing' information with those closest to her and with people she trusts and now she's looking for the next stage. Confrontation has already taken place for her in a form via email to her Brother who will probably never respond incase Megans Mum sees it. Already me and Megan know he'll have filled her Mums head with more lies, fortunately Megans Sister is still vocal but is having to pretend nothing is happening around Brother to protect his future wife...i am of a mind to fly out to Ireland for their wedding next year and raise my hand when they ask if their are objectors but thats probably just me wanting to make this right in the wrong way!
Thanks for your kind words everyone, its appreciated and yes i am glad i came and vented here, i needed to because its not really an option venting to Megan because its almost selfish, considering the options, choices and thoughts are all stuck in her head most of the time and she is the real victim, i am only really an angered partner who must support her how i can.
I never thought i'd be one to marry into problems like this, thank God Megan and her Sister are so brilliant because otherwise that family hasnt any good in it.