Your "war-grade" argument doesn't hold water.
And you, sir, are quibbling over exceedingly narrow definitions that are becoming increasingly meaningless in the overall discussion. My use of terms, technically correct or slightly less-than, will not amount to a hill of beans when this finally comes up for a rational debate, which is looking to be sooner rather than later.
When 5 year-olds are slaughtered wholesale it is time to call a halt. And I believe this country will.