Crumpet, There's absolutely no reason for you to feel obligated to support your parents (not that I think you do but just wanted to add my 2 cents).
Yes, LDH, I often rankle at the idea that she views these monies as coming from "Cyress" that my hard work (which I would have none of if I had NOT LEFT the organization
I sometimes think I should just let the karmic accumulations that my mother has built up for herself come due. And I am getting closer to that point. But blood is thicker than water sometimes (damn that linguering Christian guilt!!). I happen to have knowledge that a huge karmic bill is about to come due for her that could involve the authorities and even jail time. Something that even I will probably not be able to bail her out of. It does not originate with me but my sister. I refuse to get in the middle of it. I just wonder how supportive her congregation will be when they hear of her gargantuan need......
*crickets*
~Brigid