Effervescent you're right!
Blacks Swan my heart goes out to you, really it does. I can only imagine what some of you have gone through, believe me I've been reading on for sometime I've read horror stories, maybe in our cong. it was different. All I'm saying is there are some good people in it that might also get hurt in the process. The truth will come out not what any one of us says or does.
I'm here because I was looking for answers, I think I've got them pretty much and I've made up my mind.
Thanks to all I hope your future edeavors bring you much joy, happiness and meaning to your life.