wonder what this man did to blot his copybook?I had it on first hand authority that somebody visiting the London Bethel some years back, ran into an old man in his dotage that was accompanied by a younger bro. in something like a nurse uniform. The younger one said that the older one was John Blaney who was retired and being looked after at Bethel. Blaney was , in his day, a tremendous charecter and a very well known C/O and D/O. I had previously heard that he had retired and gone into the Bethel.
I am thinking that the costs of caring for all of them would be significant, after all nobody expected them to still be in this position in this system . Perhaps it is like every congregation that I have known, that care of the elderly is very sporadic , if you are in, you are in - but others get left alone.
As for sympathy for this man? Yes, without knowing the facts. After all, we all preached the bulls~~~t . I served as an elder for 24 years . For decades I exhorted the flock, delivered the public talk outlines and sat on committees - I really believed it . No doubt he did too.
To ftoth.
Your posts in this thread have made me read your profile and visit your site. You have my respect as a man with the rare courage to make such changes in the cause of truth ...
I really can't add much. Frank, you have my respect. You too, blues brother.
I did my 30 years as an elder and probably did my own share of damage, even though I tried to be kind and compassionate. I am suffering now and have been disfellowshipped over the UN NGO deal last May.
Glad to be gone. the suffering is because I didn't realize for 45 years that I was so gullible. What a waste of time. Tried so hard, thought I had hit life's lottery and on my way to paradise. We are all victims. I hope people close to Emshoff try to help him out. Also, I hope Frank is ok and able to have some degree of happiness. I am 60, still working, and fortunately didn't spend my time in 'full time service' but rather raised a family and did some minimal planning for the future.
My respect to you guys who did it the other way and now are having problems.
Brant