Sirona you lock this thread if that stuff starts on this thread, k?
You go IP!
with yourself not to even look at the "who is the hottest, coolest, bestest lookinest poster" threads.
Sirona you lock this thread if that stuff starts on this thread, k?
You go IP!
rate yourself as far as healing from the abuse of the organization.
time is a great healer, so i believe those who can state many years out, will also state a high rate of healing has occured for them.how many years have you been out of the organization?on a scale of 1-10, ten being completely free of the pain, one being raw and still hurting with intensity, how much healing have you accomplished since leaving?related to number 2 - how much of your mind have you recaptured?
how often do your decisions still bring watchtower theology into play when making them?.
Thanks Dave! I didn't realize how emotionally messed I was from all of the JW mess until I came here, and I have been so relieved the more I read, every day I feel better and better!
with yourself not to even look at the "who is the hottest, coolest, bestest lookinest poster" threads.
sometimes we just need a to take a step back from all the heavy topics.
AMEN! all work and no play? no way!
with yourself not to even look at the "who is the hottest, coolest, bestest lookinest poster" threads.
I guess cause I was unpopular in school?
I was to........ considered a geek myself.
And I haven't had the chance yet, but the thread about the hottest guys? Well!.... You were one of the few that I was going to list
rate yourself as far as healing from the abuse of the organization.
time is a great healer, so i believe those who can state many years out, will also state a high rate of healing has occured for them.how many years have you been out of the organization?on a scale of 1-10, ten being completely free of the pain, one being raw and still hurting with intensity, how much healing have you accomplished since leaving?related to number 2 - how much of your mind have you recaptured?
how often do your decisions still bring watchtower theology into play when making them?.
I've been out for 1 year. I think probably in the past 3 months or so, I finally stopped using watchtower theology in every day things.
My pain and suffering went down astronomically after joining this site
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this is my contribution towards a day of bizarre thread titles.
hopefully when someone presses active topics, they wont all come up on the same page.
Did he bleed the hamster first?
HHHAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!
No, he probably molested it first, LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
would you approve of your significant other going (and enjoying) a strip club?.
as an aside, do you know of any active dubs who go to strip clubs?.
i know of and has seen several enjoying the festivities.
What an utter ass!
Yes, he sure was, I hate his guts
I personally went to a strip show once, they traveled to different clubs in the south east. I stayed way in the back, I didn't want some strange man rubbing all over me like the girls next to the stage. This one dancer came all the way to the back and rubbed himself all over my backside, it made me sick. Then when it was over, he got dressed and wanted me to take him out, he got pissed because I said no. I don't know, I guess different things are for different people, but that was my first and last experience, did not like it at all
would you approve of your significant other going (and enjoying) a strip club?.
as an aside, do you know of any active dubs who go to strip clubs?.
i know of and has seen several enjoying the festivities.
My JW husband stood me up several times when we were dating because he was busy getting a lap dance........................don't get me started
ok sometimes i feel it's good to maybe not redress the balance, but at least can you say something positive that you gained from your jw experience.
so thats what i want you to do, if you so feel inclined.
can you say or mention something that had a positive effect on you when you were a witness?
Not one
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sometimes i feel like i spend to much time visiting the forum but then i remember that when i left the org.
my social circle went from literally hundreds down to about 5 or 6.. so no guilt at all--i'm glad to to be here and am grateful to everyone of you!
Its been great to actually meet people of like minds who have been through similar experiences; I enjoy posting while at work when I should be doing something more productive
Ditto diamondblue