Giordano wrote: ... his son was told by an Elder that he'd have to ask his father to leave...his son refused so the Elder told his Dad he could not eat with them.
Such arrogance on the part of the elder. If said elder was offended, said elder should have left the event himself.
Sheesh~!
Tough call on this one. I tend to agree with Ouiblette's first suggestion to be the most gracious one. But... Other people make a good point. A second- or third-hand invite, is not an invite.
Maybe do something fun to celebrate your own life. Something fun and out-of-the-ordinary with your girlfriend.
-Aude.